JustinWolf Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 During this semester, in one of my classes, I saw this very cute girl. As far as I know, I've seen her looking at me a few times over. She always seems really shy and we spoke a few times just like that and I made her laugh and all. I ended up asked her for her phone number and txt her once to which she replied a few minutes later. Eventually I got the guts to send her a txt asking if she would like to go out sometime. To which she hasn't replied... What do I do?
Green Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 seriously the number one piece advice I could give you is be confident! It would have been cooler if you asked her out in person. Make sure you flirt with her at school, you know touch her, playfuly joke around and tease her, show her a good time. Then when you ask her out don't make it sound like a date, make it sound real laid back you know like lets hang out at the beach or what ever. Then you need to kiss her, don't even ask just do it!... oh and most importantly don't get all stalker in love with some girl you don't really know like her... spread your net and flirt and talk to many girls... Don't get all focused and put all your hopes on this one girl
Mahatma Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 During this semester, in one of my classes, I saw this very cute girl. As far as I know, I've seen her looking at me a few times over. She always seems really shy and we spoke a few times just like that and I made her laugh and all. I ended up asked her for her phone number and txt her once to which she replied a few minutes later. Eventually I got the guts to send her a txt asking if she would like to go out sometime. To which she hasn't replied... What do I do? You basically failed already. I am 18 and probably quite a bit more in tune to younger girls than most of the people here. You can still remedy this, but you should not have texted her right when you got her number. She clearly was interested from what you described, but soon as you text her that fast you show her a low value of yourself. You gotta AT LEAST wait 24 hours. Tell her what you were busy with that day and that's why you did not have time to text her if she asks. To remedy this, do exactly what KMT said and broaden your horizons. Only do this untill she says yes to your date. If she sees you have moved on so fast she may wonder what she missed. Also, girls see this as moving WAY too fast. You gotta talk and built rapport before you ask her on an official date (getting lunch together for example is a great way to ease into dating) Personally, I do not deal with these types of games. I hate to advocate it but, if she does reply, wait a few hours before responding back. ----------------------------------------- I believe that was the response you were looking for. However, I urge you to just move on if you think these types of games are her thing. You will continually have to play these throughout the relationship and it is not fun in my opinion. Who knows, you may like it though.
sid3 Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 You texted her way too soon, she likely saw it as desperation. And asking her out by text is not good, it shows a lack of confidence. She'll probably not reply and wait and see if you contact her again. I'd follow the other posters' advice as it is good. By pursuing more than one, your not worried about the outcome with one girl, and your more likely to exhibit a higher confidence level because, when one has options, it shows in their attitude. Appearing too eager, needy or desperate is the kiss of death..... Stop giving her any attention, she'll probably start to wonder why your not relentlessly pursuing her..
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