mundithandize Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 hi everyone...am new at this...i was just wondering is having sex once a week normal for guys. been married for 4 yrs. i wish for more. guys/women out there. if i ask for more than once a week is that asking for too much?
ProudToBeMeAgain Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 Ok... one question: Did you have sex more often before? If you have only had sex once a week with your husband ever since you started together, then your pattern is pretty much set and you'll have to get him out of his "comfort" zone if you want more sex. If you used to have sex more often before, then something is wrong and needs to be fixed. He could be tired more often or probably have trouble getting "there", if you know what I mean. I know I used to have sex every day with my boyfriend until he got a new job and this job kicks his ass so he comes home very tired almost to the point of exhaustion so we only have sex on the weekends. However, we have it all weekend long. Maybe it's all about finding your "schedule"?? Talk to him. See how he reacts first.
george35 Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 Normally I would say it’s probably not normal. I’m not sure what normal is but there are a lot of contributing factors from stress caused by work, a young family ect to boredom in the day to day. I would suggest you start dating again, your wife of course, not other woman, lol. Being married for 4 years I’m going to assume she's too young for menopause to be an issue.
Geishawhelk Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 Guys: There is no such thing as 'normal'. There is only 'Normal for "you" '. I have seen people post they have sex three times a week. I have seen others admit they go twice a month. Some even 3 times a year. The thing is, if you're happy with that level, and your partner's happy with that level, then, whatever that "level" is, it's 'normal for you'. The only time it becomes an issue, is if the Libidos are a mis-match. when the sex is great, it's 5% of the relationship. When the sex ISN'T great, it's 95% of the relationship. Communication with your partner is crucial. And usually - usually but not in every case - the guy hs a higher libido than the woman. but not always.
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