Cherry Blossom 35 Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 I think she might be flaking... These types of women can be VERY confusing... I met a girl who temped here in my office, we kept in touch afterwards, and ended up going to a movie together. That night she left the movie in the middle of it and never came back. So I thought, well, rude but at least I know it's over. A few days later she called me back and wanted to know if I would like to hang out with her, we made a date and the day of the date she disappeared. Ok, strike 2 and out in my book. 2 weeks ago she sent me an email asking me to meet with one of her friends for something and I told her I would call her with the intention of never doing so. she messages me back again giving me her new phone number. I still don't call back. Today she added me to her "linked in" and I'm still going to stay away. This is a typical flake, she shows interest and then backs off, then shows interest again and backs off. If I keep playing her game, I'll end up in the loony bin. Just move on I say. I can't stand people like this. I want to say, why don't you just leave me alone? i think it is awfully arrogant of her to be pursuing you at this point. I used to believe the flakes and then I would end up disappointed. I am no longer disappointed, because I just pay them no mind when they start playing that game.
carhill Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=1898183&postcount=69 Pay the receptionist on the way out. Do not provide this "date" with options....
Author Bells Posted October 31, 2008 Author Posted October 31, 2008 I was just wondering, how about I play "Dumb" and contact her with options by saying, "Well, how about next weekend ?" If she keeps coming up with excuses, I'll keep coming up with options. Will this perhaps force her into being honest and stop with games? Eh, I don't know.
Island Girl Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 I was just wondering, how about I play "Dumb" and contact her with options by saying, "Well, how about next weekend ?" If she keeps coming up with excuses, I'll keep coming up with options. Will this perhaps force her into being honest and stop with games? Eh, I don't know. No. There is no forcing someone to be honest. If you still think it is possibility, go to the other parts of LS and review cheating threads or the marriage and partnerships threads. Honesty can only come from a person voluntarily. It would be ridiculous at this point to keep calling and providing her with more opportunity to reject you. Did she ask for your number? Did she give you any indication in the phone conversation that she still wanted to go out with you? Did she suggest another time or tell you she would see what she could do about rearranging her schedule to accommodate seeing you? No. No she didn't. She gave you her number without you asking and that is all you are focusing on. Remember that you had a conversation where she rejected your "options" over and over and over. Let it go now. Don't waste any more time on this one. Really there are too many women out there to not just move on.
sultry33 Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 sorry Bells, KEEN to me means to full on ie chasing to much, pestering me for a date ..when im in the getting to know stage:p or thinking it over i like to do things at my own pace and if the other person is in a rush it will put me off also shows me im not worth the wait so id be less keen to meet up;)
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