girlfriend has changed since she moved home.

[Jay34]

we have always been long distance, but when we first met we were very very close, i got to know her for what i believe is the true her, she was very open with me and it was the first time she has ever been with anyone, we felt like we understood each other, now she decided to move back home for financial reasons and this is when things started going downhill, i always knew her parents were very controlling and she was always seeking there approval, but it really magnified itself when she went home, she is a differant person, she gets stressed out much easier, she has a hard time being open and they won't even let her visit me, we are a plane ride away, they encourage her to get back with her ex even though she clearly wants nothing to do with him, she just isn't the same girl she was before, they treat her like she is 14 and she is 20, they threatened last time to take away the car if i didnt leave within a week, leaving her without transportation to school, it is very tough on her she pays for school and works no loans. i just want to know is there anyway to get our relationship back to the way it was, her sister who has a close distance relationship even broke up once with her boyfriend over the parents not accepting him. we are in love but i think reality is setting in. because even on the last visit, i saw everything that reminded me of the girl i met, we were all alone no distractions, i just don't see her as herself since she has been home. any advice appreciated

[UnamedSeven]

Hey, i think you may remember me lol.

 

Well, the sitation has probably changed, by now, and i am sorry that this has happened. Parents generally favor who they want as their child's boyfriend/girlfriend, to a certain point. 20? thats completely ridiculous. At that point, they should have absolutely no control over her life.

 

If this is really, truly, love, then there is a way for the both of you, to make it through. To be honest, its going to cost something. If you really aren't going to let her get away, then show it. By any means necessary.