dan100785 Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 My girlfriend and i have been together for about 3 months and im having trouble getting my head around her kissing other guys. I know it sounds alarming but here's what happend. 2 cases, 1 was we were talking about how i kissed her one nite and to her it didnt seem like it meant anything, she goes "thats how i kiss robert!" I was like "whoa?! what?" she replies "What i kiss all my guy friends?" all i said to that was I dont like that very much, and left it to that. The second case is this her work had some kind of a Halloween party and they sent her and few other people in a car on a scavenger hunt around the area looking for things. Later on that nite when i asked her "so how'd your scavenger hunt go?" she says "OH! I kiss this drunk guy!" I imediately said "What?! I dont like the way that sounds!?" she says "Well it was only on his cheek he was so drunk that he wouldnt remember anything in the morning. I put my leg up on him and give him a kiss on the cheek to make his night, it was funny!" I didnt ask any details but didnt really press on the issue but it bugged me. and now as i think about it, its starting to bug me more. Sure we've only been together 3 months but she told me she fell in love with me about a month after we started dating, I also love her as well. She does everything perfect but that part bothers me. Cuz heres what im thinking if your in a relationship and you claim to love someone that much why do things like that? I dont think its very respectfull for one and two it makes me think twice about how much she really loves me. I am not controlling never asked of her for anything but i wanna talk to her about it but this happend last weekend and i think its too much time gone by but what do you guys think? What should I say? I mean I know im right on a lot of grounds here. But it just makes me wonder if she will kiss a total stranger what else could she be capable of down the road you know? On a side note that night she was wearing this really short firefighter outfit, shes short, tan, blonde hair, big boobs, nice butt, you guys add it up. What should i say to her, and how should I say it. Thank you sorry it was so long.
Green Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 seriously dude I would just keep dating her till you can find a girl you like more , and seriously look for another girl. Treat it like a job your looking too quit but not untill you find a new one. Nothing your going to say will change her this will only get worse for you
sultry33 Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 yeap as above if she is into you then she wouldnt want to kiss a stranger so she be cool about you doing that... i speak from experience here as a multi kisser..when my ex who i loved said that i can tell you that it made me look seriously at what i was doing..until then i was its just a kiss
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