No more Mr. Nice Guy

[Constant]

I've tried treating women nice, treating women with respect and tried to make a woman happy, but I realized one thing. Women like Jerks and I am not a Jerk, but a doormat. Women spin me lines like "You're a nice guy, some day a woman will make you happy" usually my Ex's tell me this trash. Well as of today, I'm gonna be a Grade A Jerk. Women are all the same (heartless) so I'm just gonna use them for sex and throw them aside when I'm done.

 

(Yeah, I am hurting from my recent split of two days ago, that's not the point)

[fran82]

dont change for anyone. apart from being upset, you sound like the kinda guy i'd happily get to know! trust me not all women want jerks!!!

 

im no doormat and i know what i want, you gotta find the confidence within yourself to admit what you REALLY want and take your time trying before you buy. have sex all you want, but you wont actually be much happier, take my word for it. but im a great believer in the benefits of experience

 

its not about having gotten it wrong with your ex, its about realizing she wasn't actually want you want. do you want a girl who wants to be with a jerk?

 

go out when your ready, and see if you can find someone else who makes YOU smile! stop thinking of how you have to be to the women, thinking about what the women mean to you. wether or not they're worth your time!

[joshaz]

Awesome... Tell me... When you throw them aside... Can I have 'em?

[Constant]

Don't really get what you mean. I mean this girl was perfect for me, I was falling for her and wanted to give her my all and she is so stressed out and practically said she wanted to die about 4x and I decided it would be best to let her go, so she can get herself back together. The toughest decision, I've ever had to make and she acts like nothings happened, she's not even upset and spins my rubbish, like I will find someone who makes me happy etc. What trash is this? Does she expect me to believe this rubbish? I will never fall for another women, treat another woman nicely or have a relationship with one unless lots of sex is involved. No more Mr. Nice Guy.

[Constant]

Awesome... Tell me... When you throw them aside... Can I have 'em?

 

I'll be drunk, so if I remember what they look like sure.

[joshaz]

Look like? What do I care? As long as they have a pulse... Ah... Who am I kidding... Pulse or not, leave 'em to me.

[Constant]

 

If only you were serious? Seriously though, women do like a Jerk, I see jerks with the hottest women in the world, and I end up with beautiful women who screw me over and feed me rubbish! Surely jerks have it better right?

[jason83]

You just broke up...I get it, you're upset and down. Go through your healing process and feel better.

 

Any woman worth having appreciates a guy who will treat them right. If they don't, screw them. It's their loss! I understand that when you're in a relationship sometimes you feel like you've met the perfect person only to have that person (who you let in closer than anyone ever in the past!) complete obliterates you and stomps on your emotions.

 

But you know what? I've found out through my years that as great as I THINK that person is at the time....the next one is ALWAYS better.

 

Relationships are tough. Have a beer for now and forget her. There's a better one out there, you just have to keep the faith no matter how hard that can be.

[Constant]

You see, I'd believe that advice, if I hadn't heard it so many times, there's only so much pain and emotional torture someone can take. I'm fed up of treating a girl right and having it thrown in my face. I just want some fun, no strings attached sex with any woman that wants it, I don't care what they look like as long as they want some fun, I'm not doing standards anymore, forget that.

[jason83]

Well, then have fun when you knock up the fat ugly broad from that party you had too much tequila at

[Constant]

I will, anything for man points. All my mates have like 100 man points, I have zilch. Things need to change.

[Capper]

Well I have to say that is a load of BS! Seriously, your just another person who thinks that women are a f***ing textbook. I'll be nice and she'll want that. Problem is though mate, women are human beings aswell meaning they have tastes / likes / dislikes etc. Women like what THEY like as individuals.

 

So this girl didn't like you, and possibly a few others felt that way to? You know what I think? It's probebly that two-dimensional thinking going on.

 

Ok, let's have a proper look here. Your going to become a jerk to appeal to women, well it will probebly work buddy. But then your attracting the wrong kinda people FAKERZ People who don't know what a decent relationship is if it hit them in the face, might be worth a lumber or two but let's face it...if you do become a jerk just to get some messed-up chicks in bed, then your just admitting to yourself that you ARE a sorry case.

 

Alternatively, you could look at the real problem - I am gonna assume your a smart guy and didn't really see yourself in a loving relationship 10 years down the line with a girl who is suicidal? Let's face it, that was doomed from the start as she has her own problems not relating to you. However, you need to get rid of this thinking that women want ONE type of guy because the truth is not every woman in the world has a jerk for a boyfriend do they?

 

Beleive it or not peoples reasons for getting into a relationship are diffirent about the world. I know one girl who was with guy she didn't like very much and her reason for this was simple - she didn't want to be alone Time to ask yourself what you want from a relationship mate and then act accordingly. As I said, you want to attract fake hussies to bed then crack on with the jerkness

[Constant]

Thanks, Capper. You speak a lot of sense, but I know for a fact that "nice"/"good" women do not exist.

[Capper]

I'm sure there are people who could prove otherwise, I aint the best example at the moment because I am actually in your shoes aswell (Not literally ofcourse). But well, if thats how you truly feel...then why do you want to be with a woman anyway?

 

It might sound alittle harsh but, theres always hookers if thats the way you feel.

[Suiyobi]

I've tried treating women nice, treating women with respect and tried to make a woman happy, but I realized one thing. Women like Jerks and I am not a Jerk, but a doormat. Women spin me lines like "You're a nice guy, some day a woman will make you happy" usually my Ex's tell me this trash. Well as of today, I'm gonna be a Grade A Jerk. Women are all the same (heartless) so I'm just gonna use them for sex and throw them aside when I'm done.

 

(Yeah, I am hurting from my recent split of two days ago, that's not the point)

 

Relax there, buddy. You're probably not a doormat, maybe a nice guy, but not a doormat. And even if you were, becoming a jerk is the wrong way to go. What you need to be is a GOOD guy. He's "good" because he's got the confidence to sway the girls but at the same time he doesn't treat them like $#!t. That's the kinda guy you wanna be and that's the kinda guy that girls want to be in long-term relationships with.

[Tony T]

The best you can do is strike a good balance between being a kind, sweet, considerate guy and being a ruthless, worthless butthole. Perfect that act and you will get and keep any woman you go for. Very few women in the universe can handle a guy who is constantly nice and up their XSS. Goes the same way for men as well...guys like a good mix of nice girl and bxtch in their women.

[Mahatma]

Girls like jerks and bad boys. Women like to be treated well. Women also do not want a guy who does not respect himself. As soon as you put your girl above you, you lose their interest. You absolutely should not be a jerk, and you should absolutely not be a push over either. If you constantly do things for her and she does not return, she will lose respect for you and eventually lose interest because she will feel she has more value than you.

[monkey00]

The best you can do is strike a good balance between being a kind, sweet, considerate guy and being a ruthless, worthless butthole. Perfect that act and you will get and keep any woman you go for. Very few women in the universe can handle a guy who is constantly nice and up their XSS. Goes the same way for men as well...guys like a good mix of nice girl and bxtch in their women.

 

Uh..right on the money as usual Tony..

 

Any woman that likes a jerk or an a-hole obviously has low-self esteem and low confidence in herself. If they're attracted to that kind of stimulation then obviously you wouldn't want a woman like that for yourself would you? The type that's screwed in the head that doesn't know right from wrong.

 

You're just going through a phase, nothing to fret...just chill.

[Arise_Serpentor]

Women that like jerks ARE jerks!!! So don't feel you are losing anything!!!

[kizik]

The moment you pretend to be someone else, you lose.

 

The moment you act against your nature, you lose.

 

Don't change who you are to try to get what you think you want.

 

And don't be so cynical. Your pain from having been rejected is seeping into your mentality about an entire gender. Just because women aren't grabbin on your shishkabob (to quote Eminem) at the moment - it doesn't mean that the right one won't walk into your life in a couple years.

 

Years.

 

That's right, prepare to be by yourself, live FOR yourself, and really work on improving your life, your mind, your body, and your attitude. That way, when a good woman comes along, what does she find? YOU - the total package, and someone who doesn't NEED her, but would probably be quite interested in talking to her nonetheless.

[Shygirl15]

Shame the way nice girls and nice guys don't seem to cross paths...

[Lucky555]

here it is the last girl you were with ruined you. This is what happens..now when you find a nice girl you will be a jerk and that will end just because the ones before her treated u horrible. Gosh that sucks for the next one.

 

I think you need to find yourself before you turn into a complete jerk. Just because you tasted a few sour grapes does not mean the next one won't be sweet.

 

And right now if your looking for a nice girl...you must get over this frustration and anger.

 

DO HAVE FUN and do live your life to the fullest. A woman likes a confident man and she does not want a door mat so stick up for self by all means.

[Green]

Come back and let us know how being a big jerk is working for you, you should have some stories for us after this weekend right

[monkey00]

Come back and let us know how being a big jerk is working for you, you should have some stories for us after this weekend right

 

He should..i recall my jerkdom days after being burned by a girl..twas good.

[Green]

He should..i recall my jerkdom days after being burned by a girl..twas good.

 

I've been what you call a jerk my entire life and its been pretty good. I seriously enjoy treating women like pieces of meat:laugh: