alwayssme Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 when i talk to my ex, whenever we're talking about life or anything that has nothing to do with us, he is himself and nice & sweet, and we have a great time. There is flirting, laughing and it feels like a friendship. But whenever I bring up our relationship, he won't give me any answers. I want to know where I went wrong or what happened that made him want to not be with me two nights after telling me he loved me and we would always be together. I never saw it coming, I think I deserve an explanation, but I'm leaving it alone i just don't understand, all he says is "I don't know, things changed" and when i say in TWO DAYS? he says "i was trying to work it out but then i realized i don't even want a relationship". We went to a party with him and his friends the other day and i could see how his life is without me when i'm not around and it hurts that he has moved on so quickly. We were in a SERIOUS relationship, planned a marriage and even our kids names! he told me he misses me sometimes but that life goes on. I know that most of you would say to not be friends but i don't have a problem with being his friend. Maybe i'm finally realizing it's over. Now it's about me, how to find "life" again, new friends, new everything. I'm not getting my old life back so I want to build a new one! How do I get more involved?
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