luvncurls Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 So I am confused. I have been dating someone for 3 months now. He is full time student/works, just like me. Different school, different fields. I know that school is his first priority, I can't argue that. However, I told him on Monday that I wanted to do something this weekend and he he quickly said that he already had plans on Sat. I know that he is going to hang out with his friends and I really don't care, but it upsets me because he said maybe Fri and just left me hanging. He told me he would tell me by Wed. I haven't met his friends yet, I am not sure that I want to or that he is ready for that, but I feel as if he is placing his friends over me. I need to have my time with him that I deserve as his intimate. He can have his friends, just don't lump them together with me and give me the time I want/need to keep this going. Neither one of us has attempted a real relationship inn years. Am I being unreasonable? How can I get this across without sounding like a b****?
manugeorge Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 When you say you've been dating 3 months, is it actual dating or someone you see once a week casually? Is he your boyfriend or some guy you randomly hang out with? I don't know about others, but usually, in my world, by the 3 month mark, we are officially in a relationship, have default weekend dates and extend courtesy "heads up" if we want to have other plans. Then again, that is a relationship, what do you have with this guy?
Author luvncurls Posted October 28, 2008 Author Posted October 28, 2008 Hmmm.. well I am not sure that we've clarified that. I think that's part of it as well. I need to make sure that even though we are both busy we are progressing in this "relationship". I 'm not sure. I need to talk to him about that. I guess I'm scared to. I need to be comfortable though and I am not. We are exclusive, I used to see him more before school started. I am more confused that not.
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