eagles9989 Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 In one of my classes at college there is this one girl ive been talking to a few weeks and i was wondering if anyone has some good tips/ideas to getting a date set up. im pretty much positive shes into me because whenever she gets to class she'll start a conversation with me. plus a few classes ago when i was leaving class she purposely made a *sigh* noise (about her having a presentation next class) to grab my attention and when i looked back she caught up to me and we talked a little. she says shes not too great in math (i enjoy math) so i was thinking maybe offering to help her understanding it (and then pop a Q for a date) but that sounds weak IMO. Any ideas on how to get a date?
jason83 Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 You have classes together and she's talking to you....casually ask her what she's doing later or to grab a bite to eat after class or something
joshaz Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 She just wants you for your brain. Tell her sexing up the professor is easier. Also ensure she drops your name as a reference... Win win...
Author eagles9989 Posted October 29, 2008 Author Posted October 29, 2008 She just wants you for your brain. Tell her sexing up the professor is easier. Also ensure she drops your name as a reference... Win win... im pretty sure shes not after me just for my knowledge shes actually quite smart too i discovered. she never asked me to help her with her math, i just thought that would be a way to hang out with her like: ME:"hey hows your math going?" Her: "oh its getting pretty hard: me: "well if you ever need some help understanding it before a test I'd be glad to help you?" does this sound cheesy? any other ideas girls? like what would you consider a good first date? the mall/promenadeand then a movie or is that lame too?
Okeydokey Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 no way on the "i can help you with your math". i would suggest organizing some kind of group thing with your friends, and then invite her along. start by hanging out in group. if she wants to hang out again, she'll suggest doing something next time.
Author eagles9989 Posted October 29, 2008 Author Posted October 29, 2008 no way on the "i can help you with your math". i would suggest organizing some kind of group thing with your friends, and then invite her along. start by hanging out in group. if she wants to hang out again, she'll suggest doing something next time. k thanks man, yea i thought it sounded lame. its just today in class she kept looking back at me and smiling during the presentations. im not sure how to start everything out best:confused:
Green Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 I think you should just ask her to come hang out and watch a movie at your place... then just start making out with her!
The Player Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 ^^^ Not too sure about kmt's advice, it's too straightforward IMO. Invite her to the mall with you, the mall is a great place to have some fun. A good way to build comfort with her is you can go in those little booths that take pictures for like 2-3$ and it works great dude! The mall is out in the open in a public place so she'll definatly want to do that more than going to your house IMO. It's your decision, use it as you feel would work in your favor. goodluck bro!
Green Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 nah its great advice, pretty much you just have to kiss her. If you ask her out on a date don't make it sound like a date. If you take her to the mall or what ever just make sure you kiss her. Seriously dude I bet she would say yes to comming over for a movie and then making out with her on your couch would be so easy
Author eagles9989 Posted October 29, 2008 Author Posted October 29, 2008 nah its great advice, pretty much you just have to kiss her. If you ask her out on a date don't make it sound like a date. If you take her to the mall or what ever just make sure you kiss her. Seriously dude I bet she would say yes to comming over for a movie and then making out with her on your couch would be so easy haha thanks for the tips man but i think her coming to my place or me going to her place right off the bat is a little too early. but ima take your advice for the 2nd date have you done that in the past tho? (cause it would make you sound like a balla' ha) i just dont know how id find the right time to slip that kind of question. ^^^ Not too sure about kmt's advice, it's too straightforward IMO. Invite her to the mall with you, the mall is a great place to have some fun. A good way to build comfort with her is you can go in those little booths that take pictures for like 2-3$ and it works great dude! The mall is out in the open in a public place so she'll definatly want to do that more than going to your house IMO. It's your decision, use it as you feel would work in your favor. goodluck bro! yea the mall sounds like a good idea, and maybe some hibachi dinner cause all girls who hear i love sushi and such find that pretty cool a lot. any ideas/tips on how to find the right time to ask her to the mall? and how would you ask it if you were in my position? (we only see each other at the college twice a week and not a whole lot of time to chit chat) thanks a bunch everyone:D keep the tips coming!!!
The Player Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 Reason why I don't agree with you kmt is because it's too straightforward and will scare her off. Well, is she a busy girl? A unique effective technique way to ask her would be an... SOE *Statement of Expectation* Here's an example: You: I love hibachi/sushi for dinner! What's your favorite? Girl: Oh I like sushi too! or "Anything else she says she likes* You: Great there's this restuarant I've been dying to try. We can go thursday night, I've been told there sushi caserole (I have no idea about sushi) is heavenly. That's called an SOE my brotha, Statement of Interest. It is way more effect than asking, "Do you want to go with me to dinner? or "Would you like to go to dinner with me?" It's more manly/alpha when you do a SOE, not only do you get better results, but you are the one that's in charge. Try not to get into any specifics about where your going, keep it a surprise. You have just told her to go on a date with you in a polite and unique way.
Author eagles9989 Posted October 29, 2008 Author Posted October 29, 2008 Reason why I don't agree with you kmt is because it's too straightforward and will scare her off. Well, is she a busy girl? A unique effective technique way to ask her would be an... SOE *Statement of Expectation* Here's an example: You: I love hibachi/sushi for dinner! What's your favorite? Girl: Oh I like sushi too! or "Anything else she says she likes* You: Great there's this restuarant I've been dying to try. We can go thursday night, I've been told there sushi caserole (I have no idea about sushi) is heavenly. That's called an SOE my brotha, Statement of Interest. It is way more effect than asking, "Do you want to go with me to dinner? or "Would you like to go to dinner with me?" It's more manly/alpha when you do a SOE, not only do you get better results, but you are the one that's in charge. Try not to get into any specifics about where your going, keep it a surprise. You have just told her to go on a date with you in a polite and unique way. thanks man, i was thinking of something along the lines of that, but you answered every question i had of SOE... thanks again brah:cool: ill let ya know if i can set one up tomorrow in class... im not gonna rush to ask it tho, i gotta wait till the timing is right;)
The Player Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 No problem, any other questions shoot me an e-mail [email protected] and that goes for anybody else.
MrMe Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 ^^^ Not too sure about kmt's advice, it's too straightforward IMO. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yN7JJt1306Y
Green Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 I'm not saying I've had sex with every girl on a first date but getting them back to your place or going to theres is suprisingly easy. To give a few examples of my own recent first dates... One girl I took to the beach and then back to my place to watch tv (no sex but we made out alot and stuff) then this other girl I took to a bar and then back to my place... and then there was dinner and at the end of dinner the girl said I don't want the date to end yet what should we do and I suggested we go watch tv back at her place since she lived right by the resteraunt and we made out on her couch (no sex)... I don't think a simple suggestion of hanging out at your place will scare a girl off plus you can have all the boos you want at retail prices... and the privacy of you own home. At a minimum try to pick her up and ask for a tour of her place and look for an oportunity to make out before you leave
The Player Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 See kmt you took her somewhere else first. That's different, I figured you were saying to tell her straigh up from the beginning.."Come to my house" because that would be too straightfoward and definatly not work. Especially if he doens't know her that well.
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