LovieDove24 Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 I swear in my heart of hearts I feel that someday he will come knocking on my door again. Its just a feeling I get, maybe a little intuition. Why do I think so you ask? Well because I know that he is chicken sh*t and that someday, something WILL snap him out of it. He ran when he found out we were going to have a daughter together and he ran when I asked that we rebuild our relationship. He's a plain and simple runner. Scared of love, terrified of growing up. Honestly at the point he comes back to me I know it will be too late. Hell if it happened today it'd still be too late. But I do take some satisfaction in knowing that I am the best girl he's ever had and that someday he will slap himself in the forehead. What a dumbass for letting such a sweet and down to earth girl like me slip through his fingers. And I'm the mother of his child at that! (ok so down to earth may not seem to fit right now but I'm just on a confidence high...leave me alone! lol) Maybe this confidence is just a part of the healing process, maybe not. But it sure feels good! Thoughts? Comments?
Author LovieDove24 Posted October 28, 2008 Author Posted October 28, 2008 It may be important to note that our daughter is now the apple of his eye. But not until after he saw her precious face...it took her birth to realize he couldnt run from her.
SRV Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 AlainasMama, sorry to hear what you are going through. Better days will come your way, just be strong for you and your daughter. I have a daughter that her mom refuses to give me access to, its like a cat and mouse game. I am seroiusly weighing my options. Just be strong and this too will come to pass.
samspade Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 It sucks that he ran out on his child. Regardless, you should stop caring one way or another if he ever comes back. He's gone now and you don't need him. I feel badly for your daughter, but she doesn't need a deadbeat dad for a male role model. Scared of love, terrified of growing up. Usually when a woman says this, she is just shaming single men who don't want to marry or have kids. However, when a child is involved, I'm inclined to agree - this man should take responsibility.
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