lofi_tokyo Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 Sorry to start yet another thread. I promise this is the last ill post in the next week, in order to repent. lol gotta laugh at myself ;p Okay anyways I was considering re-adding my ex to aim, unblocking him, to see if he'd say hi, but figured no. NO CONTACT! Now, I am from Alberta, Canada, and here we use MSN messenger more than AIM. In fact, no one uses AIM. But, my family is from California so I have AIM too. Anyways. My ex never goes on MSN. The only contact he HAS on MSN is ME. Since we broke up, he hasn't gone on. I blocked/deleted him 100% out of my life. JUST NOW (and this is why I'm posting) a random box pops up saying [email protected] wants to open a sharing folder. That happens sometimes, I don't know the e-mail, so I just click no. THEN the person talks to me. The name of the person is my ex. They said hi. I have not replied. He can do better than that. Gross. I just needed to post this as a new thread because I am having a mini freak out about him contacting me. God. He needs to **** off ;p I'm working so hard at not even thinking his NAME! BLAH! Luckily one of my best guy friends in on msn too (the person I was on MSN to talk to), and he is making me strong. Amen. Sorry again for another thread. I will stop I promise ********************** No need to reply to this thread now. I'm going to bed. He never said anything more than hi. Hes not even on my contact list so I have no idea how hes contacting me, and consequently I cant block him... but hopefully he figures out that he can **** off because he cheated and left me for another woman, and I don't want his friendship. Unless hes ready to ****ing fly up here and apologize with roses in hand and that other girl kicked to the curb, I won't even listen to him. And no, hes not getting a second chance ever. Sorry for the swears. I just feel violated that he thinks he can talk to me by sneaking up on me. Get out of my life! (not all of you wonderful people, him)
JooLee Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 you can post as much as you want here! that is the whole point of it! and we are here to share our thoughts and help you through it. im so proud of you for not replying him and shutting him out! girl power yah! lol
Peter_pan Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 hmm to me that sounds odd, you want NC but at the same time you want to hear from him through the msn, hence the adding him. so when he said hi, you just leave it? i guess that gives you some power, but for how long? how long will it be before you want to willingly reply? and would he then at that point reply to you?
EmperorR Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 ex did the same to me when I unblocked her on msn. Had the nerve to MSG me after weeks of nothing hey how are you doing. Like let's see you cheated on me kicked me to the curb, told me to get lost, already in a next person arms and have the nerve to MSG me how I am. I just reblocked her 5 minute later. And now I'm cold nc.
Author lofi_tokyo Posted October 28, 2008 Author Posted October 28, 2008 hmm to me that sounds odd, you want NC but at the same time you want to hear from him through the msn, hence the adding him. so when he said hi, you just leave it? i guess that gives you some power, but for how long? how long will it be before you want to willingly reply? and would he then at that point reply to you? Hes not actually on my list though. I didnt add him. All I know is it said such and such wanted to open a sharing folder (which happens a lot), so I said no, didn't know the e-mail, then a screen pops up with someone NOT on my list, and its him. So I cant block him since hes not on my list.
Author lofi_tokyo Posted October 28, 2008 Author Posted October 28, 2008 I think whats not being understood here is I dont know HOW he talked to me on msn. He is blocked/deleted 100%. I didnt even know that e-mail until last night. Thats why I'm mad. Because he like... broke though my cutting him off. Anyways, its old and done, hopefully that doesnt happen again, otherwise I'll have to keep closing the window. Things could be worse I guess. Thanks for the support JooLee!
Peter_pan Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 ah i see now. well delete the new address he created. i feel like such a loser for losing my ex. so pissed off she is with someone else its such a bitch of a thing to do to someone at least straight away
Author lofi_tokyo Posted October 28, 2008 Author Posted October 28, 2008 ah i see now. well delete the new address he created. i feel like such a loser for losing my ex. so pissed off she is with someone else its such a bitch of a thing to do to someone at least straight away Yeah I blocked it on my hotmail, so hopefully that blocks him on msn.. I dont really know. Whatever. And yeah, it sucks when the person just finds someone else and leaves you. It hurts because my ex and I were best friends. I have a TON of friends, but he was my one constant, as for him, he has very few friends, and I was the only person he had for a longgg time. We were in a LDR and it was killing both of us, him more than me, and I offered on several occasions to gracefully end things saying we did our best (2.5yrs!), and long distance was really too much, maybe when I moved back try again, maybe not. Instead, he opted to keep trying with the relationship until he found someone new. Its hard to explain but, I guess I figured if we had just called a spade a spade and moved on, it would have hurt a hell of a lot less then being cheated on. Now, instead of me ever being able to be his friend again, I resent him for his actions, whereas both of us mutually breaking up could have been a lot healthier for a friendship. Whatever, blah.
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