SoundTribe Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 I don't know how many of you know my story, but to be frank, myself and my ex split a month and a half ago after a year and a half of dating. I was crushed over it at first but now I feel so much better. I had sent my ex a letter about two weeks ago apologizing for my immature behavior after we broke up (i felt guilty) and she signed on AIM and instant messaged me 2 nights ago. She forgave me and we have made peace. We talked about why we broke up and the like and she answered a lot of questions for me. I am resuming NC and will probably not talk to her until winter break when my high school friends come into town and have a party. I expected to feel terrible after breaking the NC, but these past few days I have felt supremely confident in myself. If I didn't know any better, I'd say that I'm 95% of the way to being healed. I'd like to thank everyone on LS who put up with me for the past month. I will remain on the site and continue giving advice. Cheers.
Peter_pan Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 tbh i think you should do it, see how it feels. if you feel like **** afterwards then your'll know why NC is best but really really think about it in a logical way man.
lofi_tokyo Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 I think if you got your closure there is no reason to call her, to be honest. Sounds like you're doing well! Why keep her in her life when she hurt you and has changed so dramatically?
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