goldencloud Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 You guys, so ive been dating this guy for 3 weeks , we;ve spent like pretty much every weekend together..he calls everyday etc...earlier he called and we chatted..he accidently slipped he was my bf, but then retreated when i said my what?(in a jokey manner)..(he knows ireally like him)...anyways once we were off the phone i wrote a jokey message on his my space wall 'i wuz here 28/10/08)....and this is the convo that happened right after it..please read and advice, i dont want to get my heart broken and get into something that may lead to nothing HIM- You getting territorial on my wall? ME-yes doth thou protest HIM-No but I do find it amusing - I'm not really a fan of the wall and open communications. ME-I wuz here=hardly open communication unless of course your interpretation of open communication is very different from mine! HIM-By open I mean that it's visible to all ! ME-ooh that makes more sense! u=undercover forever aka coy me=fan of useless prattle aka not so coy HIM-I'm a firm believer in discretion! ME-well to be honest so am i but to a degree but am a bit confused, does this mean that everything=forever shrouded behind a cloak of secrecy? HIM-Easy on the equations there kid. No it does not mean that - but then again I don't want to be publicly signalling the existence of something not yet defined if you see what I mean? ME-yeah i see what u mean... but uh that message of mine on your wall wasn't meant to signify anything...it was quite blankly...just a message without these silent themes/undertones u think it carries. HIM-Yeah I know but perception is everything - I guess I'm just a bit cagey about it appearing funny when we've not really decided about our relationship and where it is going yet. ME-true, honestly things happen as they happen, there is no step process or guide line etc... but at same time i just get the feeling (and correct me if im wrong) that you think im somehow trying to nail u into a relationship with me. honestly im not the type to play games, or run in circles. i really do like you, and naturally as a result of this i do want this to go somewhere but i believe these things happen naturally...what do u think
carhill Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 I never talked like that, even when I was young and blatantly stupid about women. No wonder kids think we old farts talk some alien language I'd give him a silence sandwich just out of confusion
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 I never talked like that, even when I was young and blatantly stupid about women. No wonder kids think we old farts talk some alien language I'd give him a silence sandwich just out of confusion I second that. You did nothing wrong. That message could have been left by anyone- gf, friend, parent! There is nothing there that signifies anything between the two of you. He's being a bit annoying. I would back off for a bit.
Author goldencloud Posted October 28, 2008 Author Posted October 28, 2008 i'm supposed to meet him tomorrow...should i go? he generally calls me each evening, should i even pick up? u know he hasn't even replied to my last message yet:mad:
manugeorge Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 It's sketchy alright and me thinks that there are others in the background on myspace...perhaps even a girlfriend, and he doesn't want you all running into each other in cyberworld. "I wuz here" hardly constitutes a roof top declaration and for him to be so easily rattled by something so innocent means he is hiding something...or someone. I'd tread carefully if I were you.
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