prettybaby Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Question for the guys here. I'm curious: say you've had feelings for a girl about 7 years ago, and she moved away before you had a chance to date her. How would you feel if you suddenly saw her again? Would you be indifferent? Would the feelings reappear right away? Gradually? I know girls & women in general are totally emotional lol Soooo, I was wondering how guys function on that particular aspect
tanbark813 Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 For me, personally, they would most likely reappear right away at least partially.
joshaz Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 What in the world are feelings? Does not compute... if( hottie.isNekkid() ) this.stripAndDance( hottie ); In all seriousness I do know a girl that I had general feelings for about 8 years ago. I haven't seen her since then, but they'd probably return. Couldn't say if it would be fast or not. We wouldn't be starting from square one, but pretty damn close; a lot has changed since then.
carhill Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 In love with her? Sure. Probably the emotions would have been there all along. Merely attracted or infatuated? Likely not, but the possibility would remain, depending on how we parted company. There have been numerous women over the years for whom I've had attraction/romantic feelings and, for whatever reasons, they didn't reciprocate them at the time and I've seen them years later and they're just a person I know from my past; nothing special.
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 Question for the guys here. I'm curious: say you've had feelings for a girl about 7 years ago, and she moved away before you had a chance to date her. How would you feel if you suddenly saw her again? Would you be indifferent? Would the feelings reappear right away? Gradually? I know girls & women in general are totally emotional lol Soooo, I was wondering how guys function on that particular aspect Feelings before I had a chance to date her? No I'd figure that was just some dumb fantasy. And seven years on? Nah... seriously?
carhill Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 Perhaps an example would be a female friend for whom one's feelings had changed but circumstances (like other relationships/geography/career, etc) obviated the potentials at that time. That would be an example of having attraction or romantic emotions prior to dating. Such would be far more "real" than a "crush", at least for me, since I'd have an emotional investment in the person as a friend. Maybe the OP can clarify the relationship prior to the girl moving away.
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