Linnus Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 So today I was going to ask a girl out, but I found out that she was dating someone right before I did it (thank god). Anyways, last week, I have been sitting with her at the library everyday she is there from about 3-6. We chat and usually have a decent time. I can drive so I can leave the school at 3. I think she knows that I like her. I can't believe she kinda led me on =( So my question now is that should I still offer my company to her? Here are my reasoning: Reasons for not staying: I don't want to be a 3rd party, kinda a waste of time Reason for staying: Make it less awkward? Perhaps there is another chance if they break up?
Geishawhelk Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 I don't fully understand what your problem is... She's just being friendly...I don't get why you think she's been leading you on.... What's wrong with just being a friend?
Author Linnus Posted October 27, 2008 Author Posted October 27, 2008 I don't fully understand what your problem is... She's just being friendly...I don't get why you think she's been leading you on.... What's wrong with just being a friend? That wasn't really the question. As for the leading me on, I think that because of the conversations we have had. There is no problem with being friends.
Geishawhelk Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Well if we don't know what conversations you had, (and you gave no hint that any specific kind of 'conversations' took place) it's kind of difficult to give a more cohesive answer, really isn't it.....? Why would you have to think about whether to "offer your company to her" or not? I think you're making too big an issue of this. Just relax and be friends. if it goes somewhere, great. if not, big deal....
Author Linnus Posted October 27, 2008 Author Posted October 27, 2008 Well if we don't know what conversations you had, (and you gave no hint that any specific kind of 'conversations' took place) it's kind of difficult to give a more cohesive answer, really isn't it.....? Why would you have to think about whether to "offer your company to her" or not? I think you're making too big an issue of this. Just relax and be friends. if it goes somewhere, great. if not, big deal.... I just mean at the library. Because I don't want it to be awkward and stuff O.o.
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