The Player Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Not Good Looking? Who Cares! by The Player Even though the modern world that we live in may place a huge emphasis on the way people look... in actuality your looks can only be given credit for about 10% of your ability to pick up women. If that is the case, then what makes up the other 90%? Read on... In reality, the only thing that good looks can do for a man is get visual attention from women... meaning that if you look like a male model women will most likely notice you faster than other men, which might seem like a good thing, but that is not always the case. Throughout the history of human beings the males have been granted the role of the predator, and in turn females would take on the role of the prey. This is why women are naturally inclined to sit back and let the men come to them and express their interest, then make the decision to pursue a relationship or not. I’m sure you are familiar with this concept, so with that in mind why would the way you look mean much at all? It’s not like you will have women approaching you no matter how good you look, because that is the MAN’S role. Master seducers know this, and that is why they do not waste their time worrying about if they look perfect, because that is the WOMAN’S role. Plus, a real player knows that he has the ability and skill to get any woman that he wants... all he needs to do is approach them and begin flirting. It does not matter if the girl is attracted to him at first sight or not, because he knows that he will get her regardless once the conversation ensues. There are millions of men out there, right now, that are constantly worrying about how they look... and I’d be willing to bet that over half of them have no REAL skill when it comes to attracting and picking up women. They think that if they look their best the women will simply come running... but it never happens. However, there are a select few who have taken the time to learn what really matters in the dating game, and even though they may still groom themselves properly... they understand that looks just get you to the door, while the rest is what gets you through it. I am one of those men (but I have’nt always been), and I have dedicated my life to teaching guys just like you what I’ve learned through years of experience. If there was a "Seduction 101" course taught in college, I would most likely be a professor at one. However, the world is not like that and probably never will be... and up until now it has been up to guys to learn how to deal with women themselves, through trial and error. Not anymore! The group I am apart of have written a book that there giving away free. All you need of course is an e-mail. If you liked this article go get the free book to learn more. If your not serious about learning to improve yourself, don't click the link, but if you are then you are in for a journey with what you'll find.. Until next time.. The Player
D-Lish Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 What link, Professor? Professor McSpelling and Grammar Scholar?
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 If there was a "Seduction 101" course taught in college, I would most likely be a professor at one. The group I am apart of have written a book that there giving away free. If your not serious about learning to improve yourself Oh the irony...
joshaz Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 Looks may only be 10%, but it's that 10% that ensures us ugly bastards don't get over the wall. Which is okay. It gives us more time to think about other things... Such as how to take over the world and enslave everyone else.
carhill Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 I want to learn more. Please post more so you can have private message capability so I can contact you. I await your response. I'm married, if that matters
Author The Player Posted October 28, 2008 Author Posted October 28, 2008 " Looks may only be 10%, but it's that 10% that ensures us ugly bastards don't get over the wall. Which is okay. It gives us more time to think about other things... Such as how to take over the world and enslave everyone else. " Well I can tell you from that post you are believing looks are all that matters. Which is not, and is completely BS. I've seen ugly guys get better than average women, it's all how you carry yourself joshaz, it's about looking as best you can from what you got. When your serious about learning to improve your dating life, then come talk with me. "Oh the irony... " Actually, a person like you doesn't deserve to know what the information I'm offering to help any man, willing to change and improve themselves. So it's great, you'll never know what you could've learned. "I want to learn more. Please post more so you can have private message capability so I can contact you. I await your response. I'm married, if that matters." What you do with the information you learn is up to you, I don't encourage in negativity in any way towards current relationships. But I am not going to post a link here, it's against rules. If anyones interested in The Paragon Project, post your e-mail and I'll send it to you through that. Have a good day.
Char.isma Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 If you had all the secrets to gaining beautiful women why are you posting little adverts here? You do realize there are thousands of books written by very similarly minded people and that they all basically say the same thing. I checked out some of those and SURPRISE they are all the same. So unless you have some amazing secrets about attracting unbelievably good looking women I'm not all that sure you're stuff will work. PS: Can you leave my GF's house? She's tired and the plumbing is already fixed.
D-Lish Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 Well I can tell you from that post you are believing looks are all that matters. Which is not, and is completely BS. I've seen ugly guys get better than average women, it's all how you carry yourself joshaz, it's about looking as best you can from what you got. When your serious about learning to improve your dating life, then come talk with me. That's what you need to take care of if you want people to take you seriously on any platform. The difference between "Your" (belonging) and "You're" (you are)...will make a very big difference to me on an online dating message. or in person if I shouted "SPELL IT" as a test. This may sound absurd... but a guy that says "your hot" in his tagline will get deleted right away.... A guy that says "you're hot"... I proceed and look at the profile. You want to teach guys the secrets of catching hot girls... cool. When you make your pitch, do a grammar and spelling check.
Author The Player Posted October 28, 2008 Author Posted October 28, 2008 See I already have a girl doing my homework and editing my articles. Thanks *thumbs up* Charisma's right, there is a lot of information flooding the internet, but most of it is BS too. Most of those books you've come across don't mention Passive Openers have they? (Girls Approaching You) or how about the infamous "neg" my group I am apart of evolved the neg, it's call TNT "The Neg Twins" were far ahead of the rest, and that I can guarantee. A well known PUA is Mystery, he's nothing compared to the information the forums I am apart of. You think your know gaming now, wherever your at I can tell you right now you can improve massively. Whether you believe me or not, a person needs both Inner Game, and Outer Game. Do you have both? Inner Game is assurance inside one's self. To believe they are the Alpha male, and not beta like most of these guys on this site. Why am I posting adverts..? Look at my articles I type, there quality information you can't argue that. I hate when people assume, negatively. In time, we will make all the "gurus" you know looks like little kids in this seduction game. Including David D, Mystery, Style, Juggler, etc.. Whether you believe me or not, look at the book. Make your own conclusions.. This free e-book is the leader in all the books you've come across. Yes, I am saying this free book is better than most, if not all the books you have to pay for. Any man who wants to learn, improve, and become great at picking up women. Then you need to improve yourself first. I'm not talking about only physical improvement, but improvement inside and out. Take my words.. " The Crash Course " is better than any book you've come across that's free..
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 Inner Game is assurance inside one's self. To believe they are the Alpha male, That's called self delusion! Gave me a good chuckle though
Lishy Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 I think he is telling all you guy to go to SoSuave I do think he has a point, confidence is key!
Author The Player Posted October 29, 2008 Author Posted October 29, 2008 Confidence is key. Anybody that's here that doesn't want to use my article posted, get out =)
Trialbyfire Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 I 100% agree that looks only gets you the second look. No confidence, no woman. Not brashness or cockiness. Just pure and simple confidence in oneself. If you're a fake, it will come through loud and clear. Having said that, intellect, humour and the ability to read a woman are also necessary. You lose the moment, you lose the woman. Okay, so now, you've got her interest. How do you continue that interest? By displaying interest. Not puppy dog fawning but consistent, confident interest.
Author The Player Posted October 29, 2008 Author Posted October 29, 2008 ^^ This is a man that understands. Glad to have you hear dude, you want to make sure she's interested in you first. Not the other way around, because hot girls get hit on all the time. So you need them to spark interest in you first, then proceed to attraction.
Lishy Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 ^^ This is a man that understands. Glad to have you hear dude, you want to make sure she's interested in you first. Not the other way around, because hot girls get hit on all the time. So you need them to spark interest in you first, then proceed to attraction. The 'man' you are talking about ...... Is a woman!
grogster Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 This Thread is why I keep coming back to the Shack. Funny as hell!!
Trialbyfire Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 Straight up, non-fluffy talk does it, everytime. Maybe I need to insert more *giggles* into my posts.
Lishy Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 And maybe the odd 'flick of the hair' and maybe wiggle your bum? lol
Lishy Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 Or a real pic in my avvy. That would do it!! These playa's can get confused and need help working out the boys from the girls as they are too busy being playa's:laugh:
Char.isma Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 HEY WATCH IT LISHY. That is THE Player you're talking about.
Lishy Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 HEY WATCH IT LISHY. That is THE Player you're talking about. I know I is skeeeeeeered
Author The Player Posted October 29, 2008 Author Posted October 29, 2008 charisma, I dare you to try and make a article as good as mine. I know you can't, but go ahead and try..
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