rose19 Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 I know this guy since 1.5 yrs and we are good friends. He is very much caring for me and always concerned for my every little prob. He always stares me in the class room. We spend much of our time together. He is quiet possessive too. He always wants to stay close.He get furious wen he see me with any other guy. He used to say me that i am really close to him. But when i ask him wat he really felt about me he replied that " i like you and i like to care for you & just want to see you happy but i never feel rite to b wid you just becos i dont want to hurt you." Just after that he went on a holiday to some other city for 10 days but after coming back he is showing extra care towards me. I didn't change ma behavior towards its was as usual as before. I keep on making fun of him and argue over silly thing but in spite of all dis he remains calm though he is very short tempered. Im so confused how to tackle these mixed signals of him plzz help me out wid dis. Additional details: sum 2-3 month ago we had a fight on a very serious issue. i almost lost maximum of ma faith on him and i stopped talking to him for about a week whatever happened in those days had created much gap between us, he didn't liked what i did and he said that u did what u wanted to. It was your wish. Things are much better now since this incident happened.Those days it seemed like our relation was on end but somehow we managed to be back on track. Then i realized i really loved him. everyone in our friend circle thought that we both were having affair but nothing was like that. We were close frnds really close frnds. But sudden gap made me realized that it was something more than friendship. My prob is things are not working more than a platonic friendship.
Goldstar Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Have you talked to him about your feelings for him? Does he know you want him as more than a friend?
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