justanothergirl75 Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 I guess you could say I am curious, always have been. I've only had relationships with men, though I did once night "kiss a girl" several times. I like men, I do, but I wonder... I want to try to have a relationship with a woman because it seems to me that somehow they we would relate better because we won't have that whole "Men are from Mars" problem. I don't even know where to begin though or even where to meet girls to date
Green Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 You can meet girls everywhere. If you are a student at a college of some sort that has a lockeroom I would sugest you hang around in there a little longer then necesary and see if a girl would like to stare at you while you take your shower. That was kind of a joke but not really. You could always go to a gay bar.
Goldstar Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Definately a gay bar, but try to go with friends not just by yourself. Also, I did the planteout personals thing, I don't know if that's still around. Someone mentioned Chemistry.com the other day. The online thing isn't bad, you just have to be open to meeting new people. Even if you don't click with your date, she may have other single friends you will like. Is there an MCC church in your area? You can meet people there also. Good luck, but relationships with women are still work just like with men.
Author justanothergirl75 Posted October 27, 2008 Author Posted October 27, 2008 I'm not college age...30+ so maybe I'll meet someone in the grocery store We have a gay bar but it's more of a men's bar than a women's bar. They do have this girl band that plays monthly in a local bar that draws a lesbian crowed, could try that. I know that a relationship with a women would still be work, but maybe not so much
AMB3R Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 I feel you on the whole dating women thing. I have considered trying it before, just cause i think that most men are lame. But i dont think its really my thing. Where are you from, they dont have lesbian bars there? Where i live there is one on every corner. I dont think that you are going to randomly meet another girl, that seems super hard to me. Its not like meeting a guy, you know that most guys are into girls, how would you know if a girl is into another girl? Do you know any lesbians, they may be able to help you out.
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 JAG - you could try Yahoo Groups. It might sound lame, but I met up with this really cool group of Les/Bi/Curious women when I lived in Colorado Springs because of it. Through them, I found out about all kinds of les hangouts in the area that I wouldn't have found any other way. Would have pursued it if things hadn't been so complicated in my life at the time. Good luck.
Author justanothergirl75 Posted November 3, 2008 Author Posted November 3, 2008 Thanks for the help eveyone... ALT.com is kind of scary
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