luvncurls Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 I posted this on the friend board too, it's intertwining. Ok, so my best friend of the past few years, that I am used to seeing a few times a week has a new boyfriend and now won't return my calls for several days. I have only seen her once in the past month. I haven't had alone, hanging out time with her in two months. I miss her terribly and am upset that I don't see her as much anymore. I have a full time job, am a full time student, have a new boyfriend and am training for a half marathon, so I am busy. But I miss my best friend terribly. I am even really hurt by it and have complained to both my mom and my boy. She told me once that she doesn't mind if I ditch her to be with my new boy because it's love and that trumps all. Letting me know, in a rather round about way, that she was in love that was that. It's been 3 months, should I just give up every trying to be all that close to her again. Also, am I not into my own guy enough? I really like him, I can see myself falling in love with him.
amaysngrace Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Can't you make plans with her for the four of you to hang out sometimes?
Fraggle Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Eh, this sort of thing happens all the time. Back when I was in an LTR, I disappeared off the radar of a few friends for awhile. Once out, I popped back. I've had friends that have also disappeared off my radar for a time due to relationships. Hell, one of my oldest, bestest friends I now see about once every 6 months. Life is change. You just have to roll with it and accept that people's priorities switch especially when it comes to relationships.
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