luvncurls Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Ok, so my best friend of the past few years, that I am used to seeing a few times a week has a new boyfriend and now won't return my calls for several days. I have only seen her once in the past month. I haven't had alone, hanging out time with her in two months. I miss her terribly and am upset that I don't see her as much anymore. I have a full time job, am a full time student, have a new boyfriend and am training for a half marathon, so I am busy. But I miss my best friend terribly. I am even really hurt by it and have complained to both my mom and my boy. She told me once that she doesn't mind if I ditch her to be with my new boy because it's love and that trumps all. Letting me know, in a rather round about way, that she was in love that was that. It's been 3 months, should I just give up every trying to be all that close to her again.
BklynGuy Posted October 28, 2008 Posted October 28, 2008 Don't give up but as you know life changes when a potential life partner enters. Ultimately, we're here to reproduce and pass on our culture to the next generation. Maybe that's her goal. Give it time and space.
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