Linnus Posted October 26, 2008 Posted October 26, 2008 I was wondering, are flowers on a first date a good idea if you are already friends with that person? Also, what is a good way to ask a girl what kind of flower she likes without being too straightforward.
yongyong Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 don't do that man. although it sounds romantic (every girl will say 'how lovely you are' shxt lol but don't trust them), it will make you look just like average guys chasing a girl with a flower. wait till christmas
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 I would never... but then I'm not you. You think she'd appreciate it?
Savychick Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Flowers on a first date is kind of tacky IMO for a first date. Perhaps later on. To find out the types of flowers she likes if your out with her pass by a flower shop and make up an excuse that you wanted to take a look at something for ur Mom or something. Cheers
Fraggle Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 I wouldn't. Save the gifting for after you've been going out for a little bit... even just a few weeks.
Ruby Slippers Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Too much. Wait till it's time to step things up for the flowers.
Ruby Slippers Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Also, what is a good way to ask a girl what kind of flower she likes without being too straightforward. For future reference, I prefer the guy to pick flowers that evoke me in some way for him. Roses are nice but boring. I think something colorful and a little exotic (like me ) is great. I would rather receive a modest bunch of exotic flowers than a huge bunch of boring roses anyday.
betterthandead Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 Did she recently get in some car accident or something?
btc8 Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 You really need to get to know the person before you can bring the flowers into the equation. Some are not generic, so they find the idea of flowers or chocolates for Valentine's Day generic only because it's a societal cliche. But, she may be the type of person who appreciates flowers (i.e.: isn't bothered by generics). So, get to know her, and maybe later, just give her some flowers before dinner when you pick her up just as a surprise and see what happens--I guarantee, generic or not, she'll be surprised. But, not on a first date. Get to know her personality first.
Lovegod Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 ABSOLUTELY NOT. Did she recently get in some car accident or something? ^^^ Props for that post
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