tarot readings

[LovieDove24]

These things she predicts come true because of SELF FULFILLING PROPHECY. You believed her--even if on a subconcious level--and therefore your reality formed around it. I truly believe we are what we think.

[samspade]

These things she predicts come true because of SELF FULFILLING PROPHECY. You believed her--even if on a subconcious level--and therefore your reality formed around it.

 

There's some truth to that. Regardless, I think eugene, the OP, is looking for a sign or a prompt and is refusing to take control of his life right now. It's human nature to want there to be an overriding force controlling everything. I can't prove that there ISN'T a force or a God or a grand destiny, so I won't discount it. But I do know that an individual has more influence over the events of his life than anything we know about. The OP is wasting his life away waiting for life to happen to him. He needs to get back on track, improve his attitude, and be happy with himself, and then he can entertain tarot cards if he so pleases. Because even if a reader told him "your ex will come back to you, and give you your ring back, and love you all over again," it would be false hope for poor eugene (and very hard to turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy).

[eugene3]

Samspade... always a pleasure with your post. You know some days are better then others. Today for some reason was harder then ever and i think its because of talking about her and this situation but it at the end of the day makes me feel better that there are people on this site such as you and lucrezia that give great input and i really take in what you two always say opinions or facts. There will come a day when she realizes maybe she does love me or misses me and i just don't have anymore time to wait. The last time i talked to her i told her i was talking to someone and she said she was happy for me. Either she does not believe me or she is truly happy i have moved on away from her.

 

Thanks!