sniahd Posted October 26, 2008 Posted October 26, 2008 Well, we been together 3yrs n we are currently living together. I am 21 n he is 28. He is a striving actor/comedian. I am a College Student. Well, Anway He calls me tonite after he got off work ( he always calls me when he get off) but 2nite he says " I will be home 2morrow. i am hanging with my consin (keep in mind his consin is a player... he is a celebrity bodyguard That want him to do the same.. We had a problem about that in the past) ... Well anyways i say okay then talk to you 2morrow. i mean what i should do i am so pissed!!! he wouldnt tell me nothing really he just say i am hanging with consin 2nite... I am mad as hell... so i tell him i guess i would go out r something with my girls... N he responds Why? then he say well if thats what you want. n i hung up. he hasnt even called me back. he usually would call back if i hang up. I need some advice......
Amy22 Posted October 26, 2008 Posted October 26, 2008 I am trying to figure out why you are upset. Sorry I don't mean that in a bad way I just don't think I have enough info to say. Are you made because he is going out with his cousin the player or would you be made regardless of who he went out with? If he went out with his cousin and then came home would that be ok or are you upset because he is staying the night? Is he staying with his cousin because they are drinking and he doesn't want to drive? I think it is good for couples to go spend time apart with friends and family. Are you concerned because his cousin is a player? I think you have to trust your man that even if he is with his cousin that he loves you and cares about you. I would be okay with this as long as he isn't always staying out all night at someone elses house and that I trusted him. When you say he wouldn't tell you any more information then he was hanging out with his cousin did he just not answer? That would upset me. Why would it be a secret?
Geishawhelk Posted October 27, 2008 Posted October 27, 2008 hanging up on someone is a controlling issue and you shouldn't do it. it's childish and irresponsible, and uncalled for. What exactly were you so mad about? Did you make it clear to him? Did he explain? So his cousin is a player.... Does it automatically make your BF a player too? Are you suggesting he has no willpower of his own? If I was your BF - I wouldn't call you back either. you put the phoine down - I assume we've finished speaking, then. he's not playing your game. You expected him to 'chase' by calling you back, and just for once, he's letting you stew. Well, you think good and long and hard about whether what you're doing is either fair or logical. Oh, and please, when you post in here, it would be slightly more readable if you use correct english, and not 'txtspk'. I take it - as you are a college student - you don't hand in work written like this....? Why not? Because it would be rejected as being unacceptable.... Some of us are very old, and can't cope with you youngsters - !!
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