Katherineos123 Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 I had a dream about him last night. It seemed so real!! I said everything I wanted to say, and he reacted exactly how I wanted him to react... Granted, earlier that day, him and I spent a few hours together alone for the first time in a couple of weeks... but afterwards I truly felt as though I was moving on. I didnt feel all that upset. Do I miss him? Yes, very much so. But do I pine for him anymore? No, hes no longer on my pedistal, and I felt good about myself afterwards. Then, the night came, and so did this dream, and now I feel like Im back in the same place again. Why would your own mind set you up for disaster like this?!
Geishawhelk Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 The subconscious is a pig, isn't it? An awful lot of people are of the opinion that the SC is there to 'protect' you and to contain that which may be harmful to you exposed. Me, I liken it to a guard-dog who's been given too much liberty.... it might be hiding bags of stuff in the kennel, but you try to do any tidying up (gain closure, put things to bed) and the dog snarls, barks and bites you.... I know, through personal experience that most dreams are as a result of stimulus of a kind, during the day. So your mind was telling you one thing, but your subconscious thinks there are still things you have concerns about....you actually still haven't gained full closure and the dog bitcha where the door (closure) shoulda hitcha!! Go easy on yourself. These little setbacks emerge to blind-side us, but take a deep breath - and take it in your stride. I had a dream the other night about - of all people -David Beckham coming up behind me, and getting amorous and kissing me..... Now, I cannot abide the bloke!! Can't stand him! But I saw news footage of him arriving in the UK with his wife Victoria who's such a skinny box of spanners, a poser and always looks miserable....and during that same day, my partner came up behind me whilst I was working in the kitchen feeling all amorous.... and my stupid brain put it all together and made an unwholesome and completely disconnected - yet hilarious - mess!
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