Exuberance Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 Alright so im in a complicated situation, Its a long story so im going to try to make it as organized as possible so here it goes: I met this girl at a concert, 3hrs and 30min away from where I live. She is probably the coolest chick I have ever met. But she has a boyfriend. She let my and my friends stay at her house for the night cause we had a long drive and we were all worn out. She invited me to sleep in her bed as long as I dont try to do anything but she has told me that the boyfriend thing was the only thing in her way of having sex that night. There was a bit of touching and alot of talking etc but nothing sexual. We left the next mourning and me and her continue to talk all the time on instant messenger and facebook everyday, even webcam. Sometimes she spits out these questions that make me thing like shes considering dumping her boyfriend for me to try to make a long distance relationship work but im not sure. She seems to be very interested though, as am I. Im not sure what to do, Do I just continue to talk to her and see what happens with her boyfriend? Do I stop it now to save myself the trouble? or just try to be friend and whatever happens happens. Im not in love with this girl or anything but i think about her my stomach hurts etc. Shes the girl ive been looking for but the relationship with her current boyfriend seems to be going very good. WHAT DO I DO?
UnamedSeven Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 I would highly suggest not doing anything, at the moment. You can't bring this up to her by asking her, "Hey, you want to dump your boyfriend for me?". If she thinks that you are really worth having a long distance relationship with, then she may consider dumping her boyfriend for you. Just continue with what your doing (talking to her and stuff), while trying to make things "As Close As Possible".
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