Learn2Swim Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 We dated for like a month , she broke it off, I went with the no talking route she says she still wants to be friends , she randomly texts me, all I want to do is forget what do I do ?
pinkrazr Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 sounds like she still wants you around, but just at a distance. to keep hanging on to her. kinda like a security blanket in the background?
Author Learn2Swim Posted October 25, 2008 Author Posted October 25, 2008 I hate it , I finally start feeling better and good about life, then she breaks it all again by just wanting to talk , so Im just around to boost her ego and make her feel good about herself?
mental_traveller Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 We dated for like a month , she broke it off, I went with the no talking route she says she still wants to be friends , she randomly texts me, all I want to do is forget what do I do ? Text her back "I have no interest in hearing from you - whether by text, phone, email, or otherwise. Cut it out."
Geishawhelk Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 You only dated for a month she broke it off - and now she's pestering you? She sounds a bit needy and insecure. Yup, I would cut contact again.
Author Learn2Swim Posted October 25, 2008 Author Posted October 25, 2008 I know thats what I need to do that what I want to do but in the back of my head I keep telling myself it will work , and that cutting it off will be the death of any hope and I know thats wrong too
MitchRapp Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 I'm in a pretty similar situation...I'm not really sure which path to take either...well I know that I should continue on NC for my own good...but I also have those same thoughts in the back of my head..
Gere51 Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 Cut all contact, do not answer her texts or calls, and just wipe her out of your life. This person wants to keep you on a string while she's looking for the BBD. Do you yourself a favor and disappear.
EmperorR Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 I know the feeling, just when I was doing good my ex text me on what would have been our 3 year anniversary, it was a dumb txt msg but it just borught back all the pain. I just deleted it, as soon as I have enough money, im cancelling my number and getting a new one.
westrock Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 all I want to do is forget in the back of my head I keep telling myself it will work , and that cutting it off will be the death of any hope What's it going to be? Do you want to forget her or are you still interested in making it work with her? Why did she break it off after a month? Is it possible that she was just scared, and now she's interested in pursuing a relationship? If you keep telling yourself it will work, then why not give it another try if that is what you want?
Author Learn2Swim Posted October 25, 2008 Author Posted October 25, 2008 I dont know , she says shes not ready to be in a relationship , she says she wants to try to make it work, she says she wants to spend the rest of her life with me then she gets me with things like " I want to not only spend my life with someone but Eternity too " her religious beliefs are the problem, Im willing to open my arms to change but hold fast to my values, she wants me to try reading the book of mormon , like I said im willing to try, open arms to change but not let go of my values her last boyfriend was a douche, he got her pregnant and left her, she had the baby but gave it up for adoption , this has her putting up walls too I dont know anyhting anymore, am I hanging on to a false hope ? I wanna tell her im not waiting around for her to be ready to be in a relationship, i plan to keep looking , but when she is ready and if im not with someone id like to try is that a little naive of me? I wanna say that but I dont know how to , any of your replies are appreciated
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