ViperGTS29 Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 I went on a date with this girl last friday. We did the typical dinner and movie thing. Dinner went well, the convo was pretty steady, made her laugh a few times which was good. We went to a movie after that. Throughout the movie she would comment about the movie or something and when she did, we would have those 5-10secs where you just stare at each other while smiling. That Happened a few times. On the way out of the movie i told her how cute she looked that night. I got a thanks out of her. When were having dinner we were talking about this good place to go for halloween that ive been to and on the way home from the movies she mentioned that she wanted to go to that place, but she didnt say with who or when. So i asked if she wanted to go on the weekend and she said yes. I took her back to her house n said i would walk her up. She said you dont have to but i said i didnt mind. So i walked her up to her door. When we got to the door i didnt want to rush things so I thought I would just give her a hug. as i went in for the hug she kissed me on the cheek and then hugged me. 2 hours later she texted me and thanked me for the date again, which I liked. lol. 2 days after that i texted her to see if she wanted to go to that halloween place but she said she was at a friends birthday. I texted her 2 days later to say Hi and she didnt respond, so the next day i called her. She answered and we taled for a few mins. I asked her about the weekend but i didnt know what day all of us were going so I told her I would let her know when i found out. The day after that i texted her about that halloween place to see if she wanted to go but she didnt answer. The day after that I called her to ask again but she didnt answer so i left a voicemail. Im really confused about if she likes me or not. I know i wrote a lot but i would appreciate advice or what you think about it or what i should do because im kinda down about it. PLEASEE!!!!
aubree1982 Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 It's hard to tell if she likes you or not, I think she's the only one that can answer that for you. You may be scaring her away with all of these text and phone calls! I know, you are just trying to plan something with her that she asked about but it makes you seem desperate. I'd let her be the one to communicate with you next.
Author ViperGTS29 Posted October 26, 2008 Author Posted October 26, 2008 o wow. so im texting/calling too much?
Fraggle Posted October 26, 2008 Posted October 26, 2008 Yeah, I'd back off and give her a chance to respond. If she does, great. If she doesn't, well, there ya go.
allina Posted October 26, 2008 Posted October 26, 2008 So she text you two hours after the date and you didn't respond for two days? She could be a little hurt or insulted by that. And if she sought advice she was likely told that her text was too much and to play it cool, which is what she may be doing now?
Green Posted October 26, 2008 Posted October 26, 2008 Heres my criticisms of you and your date. First off you didn't even try to kiss her. I mean from what you told me you should have atleast tried to kiss her in the movies when you guys were doing that staring thing or tried to make out with her at her door step when you walked her up... a little lame to just try a hug and thats it. I've had sex let alone gone into a girls place and made out on their couch on a first date. And if she texted you but you didn't text back for two days thats kinda lame.... but I'm unclear if you txted her back right away or not its def a good sign she texted your right away... I don't really think you've called or texted to much from what you've described but now that you've texted and called if she doesn't get back to you I'd say its over but don't worry about it plenty of other girls sorry you had to spend all that money
miranda78 Posted October 26, 2008 Posted October 26, 2008 Yeah, I'd back off and give her a chance to respond. If she does, great. If she doesn't, well, there ya go. yea.. i agree with Fraggle..
Author ViperGTS29 Posted October 27, 2008 Author Posted October 27, 2008 Nah i texted her back right away that night...i forgot to mention that i guess.
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