debbiew1984 Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 I split up with my ex 8 months ago,after a 2.5 yr relationship we was engaged and i was his first love since that day we have been n/c. we ended due to him wanting space - it turns out he had a break down that him push me away. i have seen him a 2 x since we split once when i stopped and chatted the next time i just said hi and walked on. Last night when i was out with my friends i saw him, i went over and said hi his face lite up when he saw me and gave me a big hug, asked who i was there with. he spent the whole night with me chatting to me talking about what we been up to how i am etc. i said i better go and see my mates and ill come back in a bit. i went out to the smoking area with my fieneds he was out there talking about me with his work mates, they asked him how long we was together he said 2 years his mate said shes beautiful, he then said there is nothing there now. i turned round and he walked off that hurt later on we was talking again he said he still thinks of me everyday, thinks of me when he hears songs, remembers when everyones birthday is close to me and thinks of me and them on that day. he missed me on his birthday when it was 3 weeks ago. i offered him a lift home and he accepted. when we got outside his house i suggested we should meet for lunch he accepted again i asked him if he still had my number he does - all my numbers, mum dads nan uncles sisters, any number where i may be he has still got in his phone he asked me if i still sleep all huddled up and if i still nick the covers i said yes, he said ah like sleeping beauty he admits that he still has all my stuff i have given him, and always think of me. and when he is out somewhere he think i will be he looks for me and everywhere he goes the memory is there and any small blonde he thinks is me when we said goodbye he hugged me so tight and held me hands when i was sitting with him talking my stomach hurt and my heart was beating fast but he seemed like he was when we first met Is he over me or just saying there is nothing there so he dont look like a wimp in front of his work mates or is he just playing games hope this allmakes sence
Dmoney28 Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 from what i gather he still has strong feelings for you. Iwould take it slow with him, if he wants to continue seeing you
Author debbiew1984 Posted October 24, 2008 Author Posted October 24, 2008 why did i hear him say there was nothing there to his work mate? none of it makes sence
frd150 Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 why did i hear him say there was nothing there to his work mate? none of it makes sence Actions speak louder than words. Take it slow, do not smother him and pay attention to his actions. I think he was just trying to save face in front of his mates.
Author debbiew1984 Posted October 24, 2008 Author Posted October 24, 2008 Thank you. i think u may be right. u dont keep cuddling someone if there is nothing there and admit ur still on there mind etc. its alot clearer typing it out!
Author debbiew1984 Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 A Update on my situation: Well im more confussed more than ever now, obviously i saw my ex a few months back and he didnt seem over me. We agreed to Lunch, but he never contacted me. I bumped into him about a month later in the high street and as soon as he saw me he started crying, he was asking how i was and how the family is. He mentioned lunch and i said yes ok, text me when u want to. Again this never come. When we finished talking he kissed me on the cheek and hugged me tight, and said i always think of u. Everytime i see him in the distance he always looks sad and down, unshaven and skinny. When i see him out with his friends he is shaven and looking happy. Yet Everytime i speak to him he is all emotional, and hugs me tight after we finish talking. He was the one that split with me, so i dont want to push it. But i dont understand him being emotional when he was the one ending it?
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