Luvvy_Dubby_King Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 i was talkin to my beloved on the phone wit her friend lys. sh asked if i could come to see her sunday night cuz i live about an hour away. Yea i kno its a long distance relationship and they are very difficult to deal wit but i did. Anyway back to the subject. So she asked me to go on a double date with and lys and lys's bf. So i said yes. My stepdad drives me out there and i walk in to a skating rink and see her and lys and bear hugged her tightly. then we walked to the corner of the rink and sat down. i got so nervous about kissin i almost left her sight but i pulled myself together and layed her body on me looked at her and i juz kissed her. French style. We then kept on kissin that night til she left and i left. When i got home she txts me plz don hate me. Then calls me with another guy she now goes wit on the phone and juz says she dont wana be wit me anymore. I got so frustrated i hung up i didn talk the slightest bit to her even tho she beggin me to txt or call her back but i still didn. Now we no longer talk anymore. Im happy wit it tho cuz she juz dont kno wat she has lost. alot of people compliment me especially girls about how sweet and mature i am. So i juz take those compliments and put 2 wit 2 confirming in waht she has lost. Something great and good in her life but o well. Relationships are short but lifetimes last forever. Please comment on my thread.
Trimmer Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 Just a word... You might get more of a response if you translate from txt msg to standard English. It was giving me a headache, so I didn't finish...
Geishawhelk Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 Yes, that was my point, but you put it so much better! ....not all participants are native speakers of English, nor are they all acquainted with colloquialisms popular in your particular area of the world. We expect that our community participants use language that not only reflects proper terminology.... The above is from the guidelines. It's far better on a forum where the only means of communication IS the written medium, to use a generally accepted and widespread form of English that doesn't alienate anyone over the age of 18. Thanks!!
Lishy Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 So,to clarify, you met her for the first time, kissed her french style and she dumped you for another guy who was with her when she made the call and this all happened after the first date? Her loss
Author Luvvy_Dubby_King Posted October 24, 2008 Author Posted October 24, 2008 i apologize for the form of my post im new at this so im going to correct myself in the future. thanks for the headsup
Author Luvvy_Dubby_King Posted October 24, 2008 Author Posted October 24, 2008 it was actually the second time we met. the first time was at her birthday party before we started dating but other than that u got it right.
BCCA Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 it was actually the second time we met. the first time was at her birthday party before we started dating but other than that u got it right. It sounds like you are very young. Generally, only meeting someone twice does not mean that you two are officially 'dating'. Usually, you have some sort of talk about it and decide that you two are together. As for the kiss, take it for what it was - just a kiss. When you get to be in your mid-20's, you'll find yourself kissing a lot of girls, usually with no intention of them being your girlfriend
Author Luvvy_Dubby_King Posted October 24, 2008 Author Posted October 24, 2008 your most likely right. I just got to release my thoughts of her. It was just one of the relationships that come and go. i should not have let it get to me cause it really bothered me for a while but now i flirt with numerous different girls. Huggin touchin cuddlin things of that sort. Im the sensitive type of guy in case you happen to wonder
Trimmer Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 LDK - I'm trying to get a sense of how old you are... somewhere in high school?
carhill Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 Pre-driver's license, so freshman/sophomore in most locales OP, kiss more girls and you'll get less sensitive. It worked for me. Welcome to LS
Trimmer Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 Pre-driver's license, so freshman/sophomore in most locales Nice catch, detective. OP, kiss more girls and you'll get less sensitive. It worked for me. Welcome to LS Desensitization through exposure. Classic phobia treatment. LDK - this is a hard time of your life, probably made even more confusing when you are having this kind of "luck" getting to make out with girls (I wish I'd had had that much luck at your age...) Maybe with time you'll get used to the difference between someone who's just "hooking up" (isn't that what you kids are calling it these days?) and someone who is more into you, and you only...
Author Luvvy_Dubby_King Posted October 25, 2008 Author Posted October 25, 2008 well i got enough advice to try out from everyone really apprieciate all the help. Doesnt seem like alot but i get some implied phrases and meanings from what i have been told. I may seem young but dont let someone being young fool ya lol... I am a little young but not by much. Put it this way im old enough to have a decent paying job for what the worlds worth anymore. Thanks Ya'll. Also never thought of desensitizing myself to more exposure to something similar to the cause. May work
carhill Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 OP, the best advice I can impart upon you is to remember that girls are not some alien species, regardless of the signs of such they might send out ; rather, they are humans just like you and have fears, doubts and insecurities about their lives and future and even what they'll say to you or what you might think or feel about them. Remember this and kiss more girls and you'll be amazed at what will happen to you.
Eyeofthoth Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 Hey carhill I am really curious. You sound like a mature evolved guy, and you are apparently very married. How come you are always on LoveShack then? Signed, The Broken One (I know, I know . . . what a sad victim I am) ET
carhill Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 Hey carhill I am really curious. You sound like a mature evolved guy, and you are apparently very married. How come you are always on LoveShack then? I get tired of talking about cars (my other passion) Seriously, it's adjunct therapy to MC. I use LS as a mirror. I give advice, then look at that advice and at myself and my life and M and other relationships. Check to see how many threads I've started I also believe in helping people. I have a good staff that watches my other forums, and, frankly, the subject matter, dealing with dementia (my mom's disease) is something I'd rather not face every day at this time. So, you're stuck with me for now. OP, swallow those fears and worries, show your interest and desire in a gentlemanly way and you will always have women in your life, whether as friends or lovers. Trust who you are
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