Bells Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 I wonder...when some women flirt with me, and the like....and a couple of weeks later, the flirting stops. I was flirting and this girl was kind of touchy feely with me, we all hang out at this restaurant, and she said, "Hey,you should be here on the <name date> ...that's the day I'm divorced!" And I go, "Great, we can celebrate!" I finally see her on said day...and she's kind of short with me, not all that l flirty, but appeared to tolerate me. (perhaps she was sober? Lol) Anyhow, she left early... I emailed her later on saying, "Oh, dang, todays the first day of your divorce" or something like that.....eck, no response. Funny how women flirt with you, then when you take it to the next step or even reciprocate the flirt....they run cold Ever had this happen? I guess she thought, "Crap, I flirted with him, and now he's continuing flirting with ME! I shouldn't have done that!" lol
You'reasian Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 It depends on the woman. A woman flirting with you can mean alot of things - many which have nothing to do with being attracted to you. With some women, younger, more flirty ones or girly types - just let them come to you and flirt with you - enjoy it but don't expect anything "real". Leave them be. If they come back, there could be something....wait for it PS - I hope you don't mind taking advice from an orange and white dog.
Walk Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Divorce is kind of traumatic. I doubt that she was giving you much thought at all on the day her divorce is finalized.
carhill Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Flirting takes their mind off reality, like husbands and boyfriends
Dark-N-Romantic Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 I have that happen a lot, one of the reasons why I have a problem with forming relationships, I hate getting my hopes up and finding out it was just a game. On the same token, I have done the same and am trying to make sure I am honest up first before I start flirting and before feelings start getting too deep. DNR
lofi_tokyo Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 I have two girlfriends who are both VERY flirtatious by nature. Guys fall for them left and right. Unfortunately, they just flirtatious people, and give off all the wrong signs. Guys end up getting hurt. Its not nice, they feel bad, but its how they are I guess. :S They regret flirting sometimes I'm sure when they see the damage they cause.
Author Bells Posted October 24, 2008 Author Posted October 24, 2008 Its not nice, they feel bad Yeah, I'm sure they loose sleep over it.
Lovegod Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 Ever regret flirting with a guy? Yes. He touched my bum after :lol: On a serious note, it sounds like all you're doing is flirting. If you're not advancing what you started with her, she is going to lose interest and find someone who WILL move things forward. That's why dragging things out will cause a woman to become 'cold'.
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