LovieDove24 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 The ex I'm referring to is the father of my child. Let me start off by saying we only dated for four months before I got pregnant. We were 23 at the time, just out of college. I was his rebound from the start and I knew it because I was head over heels and he was only ho-hum. He constantly denied it though and told me he loved me. When we found out I was pregnant, he got scared crapless and ran. After months of being pregnant and no word, I THOUGHT I was completely over him until one day he came crawling back wanting to be in our daughters life, but not mine. Ok, fine I thought. That is all that is important anyways. But the more time we spend together, the more I feel like we're the right fit again. Our daughter is 5 month old now and we spend all of our nights together taking care of her. We phone/email each other at work and even spend overnights together when she is sick. But when I mentioned that we should try to date again for our daughters sake he said he doesnt love me It's really crushing. But now the worst part of it is I HAVE TO SEE AND TALK TO HIM EVERY FRICKEN DAY!!!!! AHHHH! What do I do to ever get over this?
SRV Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 Same predicament, I have to talk to my daughter's mother and it just sets me back. I try as much as possible to limit the physical contact with her. Wish there was a magic answer to your question. be strong for your child, that should be your focus now. Try to keep your interactions with him strictly about your daughter. Good luck!
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