lambda Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Ok, I guess people can flirt innocently with just about anyone, even people you don't find the slightest attractive. But who do you flirt a bit more seriously with? By seriously flirting I mean some good physical contact (not just a tap on the shoulder, or playful punch on the arm), but like if she's leaning into you and let her tighs/butt/boobs touch you.. If she does this to you, in addition to showing an interest in you private life, and flirting with you in other ways, is it safe to assume that she at least find you a little attractive, EVEN when her intentions is not to have sex or a relationship (because she has a boyfriend for example)???
prettybaby Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 I'm confused. You're asking us who we flirt with. And then you're asking if some chick pushing her boobs against you means anything?
Geishawhelk Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 I hate to say it lambda, but I've had a look at all the threads you've posted and they're all about flirting, or how to know what signals mean and what you should do..... You've been here a while, and you've asked so many questions... is nothing getting through....? I mean, you still have to ask? I'm serious! Are you really that 'bad' at reading signals and getting to know ladies - ?? because vevery single time, it's hanging by the question....
CandyGirlXO Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 YES if she is pushing her breasts against you I would definately consider that flirting. It doesn't get any more obvious then that. Yes she finds you attractive, or she wouldn't be touching you like that. What do you do back when she is acting this way towards you?
Author lambda Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 She did this a few times, and while it happened we just laughed and had fun. I also stroke her back to show that I enjoyed it. Don't know what else I could do, she has a boyfriend.. The reason I'm asking this is that I need verification . I mean, if she could do this to just about anyone, it kinda hurts, because then it meant nothing to her. But I've not seen her doing this kind of stuff with anyone else, and I think we had good chemistry and mutual interests. So what I want to know is if there at least was some mutual attraction there, even though she had no plans to pursue it..
sid3 Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 It's impossible to say if there was mutual attraction, only she knows for sure. The fact that she has a bf and still engages in this kind of behavoir says alot about her character in my opinion. My guess is she enjoys the attention you provide and she is likely a bit of a tease. In regards to your thread question, I flirt with everybody, unless I know they have a bf/ husband. It doesn't matter if I don't find some unattractive, making someone feel special, lifting there mood, showing them a little kindness is not only a good feeling and a selfless act, it does allow you the chance to improve/maintain your social skills. Players flirt/hit on people with their own wants and desires as the driving force, happy/outgoing people flirt with everyone as they have the same amount of respect for people regardless of their particular looks.
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