Tryng2Trust08 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 I was dating a guy for about 7 months, things have been rocky for the last 3 months, but we dealt with the issues and kept moving forward. Well, things got to be to much for me and for him also. I was reading into too many things and really not trusting that he was interested in me and making efforts to see me. He was always very understanding and patient with me. I initiated the break, over something stupid but partly because I need time to myself and maybe he's not rigt for me. Part of me is regetting it, while the other part thinks it's for the best because we were getting int arguments weekly. I thought we could still talk and be kool without the pressure of seeing each other. Just keep in contact and remain close friends. We have always been up front and honest with each other, I have absolutely no resentment towards him. He says the same about me. So, at this point I sent him a text yesterday telling him just because we had some issues Im not ready to write him out of my life because he's a close friend and I like him as a person. I made a mistake of doing this to another guy, I told him I wanted nothing to do with him and looking back I made the wrong decision, I wish I had him as a friend, so I don't want to do this with this guy. He txted back saying " I understand and feel the same, but lets chill for a bit." I replied ok, I got ya. What is this suppose to mean? I havent texted him since, Im giving him his space becase thats what hes saying he wants, it just hurts really bad...what should I do? He also said he wants to know how my life is without talking and seeing him, if it's any better. I think he wants me to have more apreciation for the time we had together instead of complainig about the time we didn't spend together. any advice?
EmperorR Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 most times yes, it's just to offer the other person a glimmer of hope.
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