herenow Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 I haven't been here in a while and I haven't read this whole thread, but I wanted to comment about why I think the wife would take the OP back 3 times. Having been through it once, I can't imagine three times. I certainly couldn't love a man who would put me through that kind of pain again after witnessing it the first time. That's why I don't think his wife loves him. It's very possible that the only reason his wife takes him back is because of the kids. Sometimes people think the MM is loved by two women and he has to choose. Ponder the possibility that the BW doesn't love her H and continues to take him back for the same reason so many MM use as a excuse to stay. The kids. Now, personally, I don't agree with that. Kids should never be blamed for their parents decisions. How do you think the kids would feel if they knew they were keeping him from being happy?
pelicanpreacher Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 I haven't been here in a while and I haven't read this whole thread, but I wanted to comment about why I think the wife would take the OP back 3 times. Having been through it once, I can't imagine three times. I certainly couldn't love a man who would put me through that kind of pain again after witnessing it the first time. That's why I don't think his wife loves him. It's very possible that the only reason his wife takes him back is because of the kids. Sometimes people think the MM is loved by two women and he has to choose. Ponder the possibility that the BW doesn't love her H and continues to take him back for the same reason so many MM use as a excuse to stay. The kids. Now, personally, I don't agree with that. Kids should never be blamed for their parents decisions. How do you think the kids would feel if they knew they were keeping him from being happy? Yours is the fresh approach that screams the truth that I've been waiting to hear! There's a reason why you don't #### where you eat. Your first desecration was cleaned and sanitized by your wife but after that she let your soilage remain and simply began looking after herself and what she perceived as the best interest of the children. You are living on borrowed time my friend so enjoy it while you have it!
pelicanpreacher Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 Edit: My post was directed at the OP lest anyone become confoozed!
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