lovelylady80 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 I've been dating my boyfriend for about five months. He is a funny, easy-going guy. He can be sweet and tender but at times gets a bit rough, pretending to back hand me or elbow me. He has never actually hit me or hurt me in anyway. It doesn't bother me that he does this since its usually roughhousing...we enjoy wrestling and tickling each other. My concern is primarily the potential warning signs or red flags to look for in a man who may be abusive or obsessive/possessive. If anyone has any advice on clues that could determine a man's potential dark nature it would be greatly appreciated!Thanks
Lovegod Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 If anyone has any advice on clues that could determine a man's potential dark nature it would be greatly appreciated! ...and if you recieved these clues, you would automatically ditch him, right?
Meaplus3 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Sounds to me like he's beign playful. I was in an abusive marriage so I can tell you if he starts to control you or verbally abuse you in anyway that sort of behavior should be a big red flag to GET OUT! Just keep your eyes open here and keep a good watch on his behavior. Good luck. AP:)
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