Sad&Lonely08 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Some of you know of my sistuation already. I have known of L for some time now. But never to the point that it is at now. She and her 2 kids go to the park and long walks with them. E says they are just friends. There is nothing going on between them. But he did admit to holding her hand because our daughter told me they do.He said it just happened.. Our baby told me they kiss. E says they don't.He said she is fun and likes to do the same things he does. He just keeps telling me to do my thing. Get my self together take care of me. Grow up. He says in may ways in my life i act like a teenager. I depend on people to much to do things for me or take me places(i don't drive) and i need to learn to do things mySelf. I havbe my permit and he said he would by me a car and in my name if i got my license. He said me not driving put a lot of strain on our marriage and he felt like he was hte taxi cab all hte time. Said he felt like he never had anytime for what he wanted to do. So much errands and things with a family with 3 kids. I know this. I have had a ear of driving for ever. I get all nervous. and my hands start to sweat. it's crazy. Seen him today at lunch and he asked about the classes. I told him i have my first thurs night. I told him know i will show up at your door..lol. Kidnap you. He said as long as you are driving. So i said i"ll call you up one night for drinks. You can meet me up there. He said Hell i would probably beat you up there. Just to see you walk in. So i said you would be willing to go on a date. he said when i get my license we would talk more about us. dates adn things because then one of our biggest issues will be dealt with. He drove me back to work and kissed me when he dropped me off and told me he loved me. He looked so sincere. I don't is there something i am not seeing??
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 He is only going to admit what he thinks you already know. I can guarantee you that there is more than 'just friends'. People don't walk around holding hands when they are just friends - because they don't want to give each other the wrong idea. I'm certain they kiss too, and a whole lot more. As for his affection for you, and kissing you - well, trust me on this one: you can be affectionate for the person you are with, and still maintain affection for someone else too. I wouldn't consider reconciliation at all until this other woman is completely out of the picture. You won't have a shot at all until she is.
ilmw Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Hmmmm..... I heard the same thing....couple of years ago... now that friend lives with my ex-wife and my kid.... and they are apparently engaged too??
BuccMan Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Just Friends = universal reply for we are attracted to each other and have been having sex every chance we get.
misternoname Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Yep...heard that same crap before. "Just friends...kissed him once but never slept with him" etc. etc. All lies. You have described the classic equation for an affair. Hire a PI and bust his ass!
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