m0rdecai89 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Hey my girlfriend and I had been serious for 2 years while I lived in MO, we got along great, no problems and even discussed her moving to CA with me later. Well I moved back to CA just as we had discussed and was looking for work and a place to live for us both etc... but ran into many snags and other things, we would however fly out to see each other every 2 months. She was crazy about me and I loved her. We did LDR for 6 months then when we talked on the phone it was always the same stuff mostly her asking me when shed be out here etc... and I really just stopped caring, which of course she picked up on since the phone was virtually the only way we communicated. Well she found a guy in MO that obviously does care and she broke it off, but now that I've been thinking and dating other girls I realize she is really special and hard to find, plus we have such a good history up till the last month or so. My question is how can I get her back even though she is with another guy or atleast set myself in a good place to get her back. Maybe even just let her know I care about the realtionship still but without actually saying it and giving her control. I hate these stupid games but I really want her back, she is very important to me. PS: A mutual friend spoke to her and she said we broke up becaause, " I stopped caring and was acting like a jerk". So she basically ran out of hope for our relationship and ran to the first guy she could find.
Lucky_One Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Have you thought about calling her and saying, " I am sorry. I was wrong. I was a big giant butthead and I love you and miss you and want to work this out. I want to come see you this weekend to talk about this. May I?"
Meaplus3 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 As lucky mentioned, How about calling?. This way you can explain how you feel and get a better feeling of where she is at. Good luck. AP:)
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