puckstopper Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 So I've been reading through some of these posts, and I've seen some good advice being given out so I thought I would put my dilemma out there. So there's a girl from work that I've kind of been hanging out with for the past couple months. She's a really cool girl and we share a lot of the same interests. But I can't really tell if she's really into me. I went down to the beach with her family for a few days this summer. we went camping together about a month ago, and we've hung out a bunch of times. After the camping trip we went to the movies, ended up movie hopping, so during the movies I have my arm around her and we're holding hands, but I can't muster up the balls to try and kiss her. Anyways I dropped her home, and I went in for a kiss. I think I caught her by surprise, it wasn't short, but it wasn't long. Afterwards she gave me another hug and I was on my way. So it's been a few weeks since then and we've hung out a couple times. but all I've gotten is more hugs. One time she got out of the car and then came back in to give me a hug. So I don't know if me kissing her freaked her out, but if it did would she still hang out with me? She's the kind of girl who has a lot of guy friends, which I don't have a problem with. The only thing is I can't tell if she's romantically interested in me, or if I'm just another guy she hangs out with.
joshaz Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 I'd say she is. If she was "freaked out" she would have said something or kept her distance.
Lovegod Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 So there's a girl from work Rule of thumb: Don't stick your d1nk in the company ink. If things happen to not work out between you and your co-worker (and the chances are high), then you will be causing unneeded stress in the workplace. There are plenty of single women who DON'T work at the same company as you do. Date one of them instead.
lostinliife Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 It sounds to me like she is interested in you. Sounds like she may be kinda shy. The best thing to do is to ask her how she feels about you then you will know for sure.
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