Lonelystar Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 I guess I just need a place to rant, and this website has been so helpful with that. I checked a website my ex had (and I know I shouldn't have)...and it brought me down to my knees again. He seems to have moved on fairley quickly, and I'm still here missing him. He said he loved me last time we talked and that I would always have a piece of his heart. I just feel so lost and confused, and I don't understand why I can't get over him. He was my first love and we were together for so long. I can't describe the pain I'm going through, but it makes me want to crawl into a hole. Some days I feel better then others, but today just sucks. I know time will heal all wounds, but it has been so long and I'm still not over him. I know need to stop checking his site because it will only make me feel worse. I have other guys ask me out, but I keep comparing them to him and they all end. I just hate having to go through this, and just don't know when it will be all over.
javierserventez Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 I've been through a couple of bad break-ups. Time with friends and family really helped me. Let yourself have fun!
alwayssme Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 aww i feel the same way. it's the worst feeling for how long have you been broken up?
Dmoney28 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Hey, first off, i think all of us here know how painful this is for you, and our hearts go out to you. This is one of the most painful expierences we could go through. Just hang in there. You have to do NC..you have to. And like everyone here says...its going to suck...oh god will it suck. But anything else will not only hold you back from healing, but also push him/her away....the last they want is the reason of thier break up constanlly calling, txting or e-mailing. Stick to your guns. If he has any feelings for you, he'll contact you. If not, you would have will healed, and be able to move on. If and when he contacts you, just take it slow...the ball is now in your court, make him wait a bit, dont come off needy...the more you push yourself on him, the further he's going to back off...the more you back off and limit or intiate NC, he will be drawn towards you, hope that helps...best of luck
Author Lonelystar Posted October 29, 2008 Author Posted October 29, 2008 We have been broken up since the end of July. We were together for 5 years, and even talked about marriage. This is a hard time, and may time heal all our wounds!
Author Lonelystar Posted October 29, 2008 Author Posted October 29, 2008 I have started NC, and it has been about two weeks. It is empowering, and I can finally see the benefits of it. I just wonder if I do NC, will he just get over me. Even if he does, I guess it was meant to happen. I have a feeling he will contact me, but wanting to be friends. I don't think I could ever be his friend though, and sometimes I wish I was strong enough to do that. Thank you guys for replying... any advice is much appreciated.
SUFIA Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 I guess I just need a place to rant, and this website has been so helpful with that. I checked a website my ex had (and I know I shouldn't have)...and it brought me down to my knees again. He seems to have moved on fairley quickly, and I'm still here missing him. He said he loved me last time we talked and that I would always have a piece of his heart. I just feel so lost and confused, and I don't understand why I can't get over him. He was my first love and we were together for so long. I can't describe the pain I'm going through, but it makes me want to crawl into a hole. Some days I feel better then others, but today just sucks. I know time will heal all wounds, but it has been so long and I'm still not over him. I know need to stop checking his site because it will only make me feel worse. I have other guys ask me out, but I keep comparing them to him and they all end. I just hate having to go through this, and just don't know when it will be all over. intrested in you my name is sufia i am a young beautiful girl with full of love and carely also romantic,well i saw your profile today in and i love it,i think we can click together please i will like you to email back through my email adderss thus:([email protected]) please i will like you to use your email adderss to contact me directly to my emailbox.atdesame time i will show you my photo and you also know more about me. thank for your understanding. [email protected]
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