Jay34 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 we have been together for a year and it has been long distance, things in the beginning of long distance were fine, she always asked me to come see her and for some reason i never did, its like i was nervous too either way eventually it pushed her away and we eventually got back together after a week of not talking, it was long distance again and ever since we got back together and really since she moved back home and in school she has been moody, irritable and the rare occasion she is her old self, the girl i fell in love with, but now it is rare, i dont answer her calls because she usually just calls and has nothing to say, the last time i visited her we had a great time, everything was like old times, things were so great, then when i go back home a good week of communication and then she goes back into her shell again, she is so unstable, i think it may be time for me to get out of this, but i still really love her and want to be with her, but she isn't putting any effort, she has emotional problems and has a hard time expressing herself, but things are not the same, is there anything i can do to bring this back to the way they were, it seems like she doesn't want to really commit herself emotionally but wants me there, idk what to do, i want her but not the her she is now.
javierserventez Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 long distance is tough. my suggestion is to search up a couple tips on spicing up the ld relationship. if you still love her, then try to save it. If she doesn't put forth the effort, then tell her how you feel.
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