audioslave Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 I had a chance with the girl I wanted most in this world and I missed it. I should have not waited this long to make my move. She Just had just been left by hey BF who she was with for about 1 year, I was giving her space but I should have taken her hints and went with my instincs but I deciced to wait a bit. I waited abit too long and she got back toghethor with him. I hate my self so much right now and I keep beating my self up about the whole thing and wondering if another chance will ever come.
All Star Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 Yep! Don't do it again. Make your move next time.
Geishawhelk Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 If they broke up once, unless they get counselling or really deal with the issues which caused the break-up in the first place, head-on....there's every chance you're still in with one.....
Lovegod Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 A couple things to keep in mind.... #1) He who hesitates, masturbates. #2) I had a chance with the girl I wanted most in this world and I missed it. The problem here is that you seem to think that this is the only desirable girl in the entire world. Have you even met at least 1/3 of the women on Earth? If not, there is a very good chance that you will meet another woman, one who is hotter and more interesting than this one that you 'missed out' on. #3) Again, when you see an opportunity, take it. You'll feel worse for not taking an opportunity than if you had approached her and got rejected. #4) Rejection is easy to take when you realize that there's always a better woman out there who would love to spend some quality time with a fantastic guy like you.
Author audioslave Posted October 31, 2008 Author Posted October 31, 2008 A couple things to keep in mind.... #1) He who hesitates, masturbates. #2) The problem here is that you seem to think that this is the only desirable girl in the entire world. Have you even met at least 1/3 of the women on Earth? If not, there is a very good chance that you will meet another woman, one who is hotter and more interesting than this one that you 'missed out' on. #3) Again, when you see an opportunity, take it. You'll feel worse for not taking an opportunity than if you had approached her and got rejected. #4) Rejection is easy to take when you realize that there's always a better woman out there who would love to spend some quality time with a fantastic guy like you. You are right rejection is alot more easy to take, I`ve been rejected before and felt better about it because I`m not left wondering about what could have happend like I am left wondering now. I do know they are more girls out there. This girl will always be the girl who got away. Neither one of us expected to feel the way we do about one another when we first became friends, it all just happend. I'm only 20 but for the past the couple years there has been this hole inside me and I have always felt some what empty inside until she made me feel the way I feel about her. Alot of my firends have asked what I see in this girl and I can not explain the reason why I feel the way I do about her. All through out High school there has not been one girl who made feel like I could be with her no matter what has/will happened. I am my complete self when I`m around her and it has always been that way since we first became friends. I am normally a quite and laid back guy and when I`m around girls especially the ones who I have liked I am very quite and shy I dont know why I just am. But I`m when with her ( which is pretty much everyday we are togehor) I am my complete self I dont change at all and worry how she will precieve me becuase I know she will accept how I am no matter what. She makes me feel good about my self and when we are together we always make each other happy. Neither one of us can stand seeing eachother upset at all becuase we both deeply care about eachother . As it stands now we are still best friends, but when I see her with her BF ( who is actually a friend of mine before the two us became firends, I know thats ****ed up liking a friends GF and having stuff happen between her and I but you can't help how you feel about someone) it is just so unbearable now. We have both agreed that everything needs to chill out between us becuase it will tear apart the great friendship we do have. But everytime I think about the whole situtation I am left wanting more. I just don't know what to do anymore. The only thing I do know right now is that I need her in my life.
oneofakind Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 If it's meant to be at a later date with this girl, then it will happen. Otherwise, you're fairly young, so I wouldn't worry so much....you'll have more opportunities that come with women. I know it's hard to think that right now since you care about this girl, but it will get easier over time. Things can change in a matter of days or weeks for you...you never know what life is going to bring.
DanaL Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 Well, you won't hang around again will you? You simply have to get on with your life and if the opportunity to be with her comes again, get on in there and make your feelings clear! Don't sit back trying to give her space, get in there and be that shoulder. As someone else said, if they broke up once before, there's a high chance they will again. Good luck!
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