Flowerpower7 Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 So I have read a lot lately about showing interest to a guy that you like is wrong. That this will push them away. However, if I ignore him then he will come back and show interest. It seems to be a never ending game. I dont like games and am more of an "up-front" person...but sometimes you have to do the opposite to get what you want. If I show interest to him and he backs away and I ignore him and he shows interest in me......how do we get together if I can't show interest in him.....??
prettybaby Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 ^^ I've learned that such dynamics don't work for me at all. It's too many headaches and I can't stand that. If you can't be as easy going as I am, then bye bye. Simple.
Suiyobi Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 So I have read a lot lately about showing interest to a guy that you like is wrong. That this will push them away. However, if I ignore him then he will come back and show interest. It seems to be a never ending game. I dont like games and am more of an "up-front" person...but sometimes you have to do the opposite to get what you want. If I show interest to him and he backs away and I ignore him and he shows interest in me......how do we get together if I can't show interest in him.....?? Just act casual about it. Show enough to let him know that you're interested, but don't pounce on top of him unless you two are already in bed.
You'reasian Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 Don't play games. Let him know that you're interested and that you aren't going to play those games. Take the ball!
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