Mahatma Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 I'm going to guess this is a touchy subject for men grading their performance in bed ? Speak out men. Does your penis size really matter ? ( I used to say it doesn't matter but ...., ) Yes I know penis size does matter. You can be too big, too small, or just right. Different people like different sizes, but for certain no girl likes a small one and no girl wants 12 inches. Girth is also very important, and goes along the same lines and length. I do not need a girl to tell me how "big" I am and any guy who needs you to say it is just insecure. I will admit though that when it's cold... I can't help but be a little embarrassed. Back to the original question though. I am aware that girls talk about these types of things to all their friends, women do not. Boys tell all their friends about it, men do not. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with telling it to your best friend or someone real close, but if everyone you know is told, that is just plain disrespectful. I have never gone into detail about why the sex is good or bad when telling my friends, but I see no harm if it gets brought up.
muse08 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 That the majority of the time, your girlfriend's friends all know how big your willy is, how long you 'keep it up' for and the noise you make when you cum? I cant speak for every girl but girls tell their friends these things! When my friends (or myself) meet a new guy and when they sleep with them for the first time we get every gory detail! I told my boyfriend this once but he didnt believe me lol lol...you are too funny. it's true though. however, for me it depends on how close the girlfriend is. it has to be one (or 2 or 3...) of my solid homegirls...
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 The reactions here by the boys are so funny!
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 The reactions here by the boys are so funny! haha i agree what's to be so fussed about? I mean just last week I was discussing my ex girlfriends hairy loose pussy while I was hanging out with my guy friends, and we got onto the subject of inverted nipples and stretch marks, hahaha girls did you know we talk about this stuff right down to the way your butt looks big in the trousers you wear? etc. etc. etc. yawn.
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 haha i agree what's to be so fussed about? I mean just last week I was discussing my ex girlfriends hairy loose pussy while I was hanging out with my guy friends, and we got onto the subject of inverted nipples and stretch marks, hahaha girls did you know we talk about this stuff right down to the way your butt looks big in the trousers you wear? etc. etc. etc. yawn. And there it is ... another insecure guy lol
eric82 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Lishy, is there anything you won't discuss with your friends regarding your boyfriend? Like do you treat his intimate feelings more privately than his body and performance in bed? I'm just trying to see where you draw the line or if everything is an open book.
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 Eric .... I would never tell my friends intimate details of the guy I love ... I am talking about when you first sleep with a guy you tell your closest friend(s) about it and when he is horrible to you then you go into more detail in a negative way It is not just me either, it is most girls ... Its a girl thing and alot of girls would deny it to the guy.
TudorII Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 What I think is funny is the level of truth that goes on based on many things other than really how big it was. I mean if he pissed you off then you say he was an ass but had a huge cock or more likely he was just average size or even pencil dick. But if you had good time and like the guy you are more inclined to say it was good, nice cock, etc. Also if you are embarrassed you even hooked up with them you tend to over compensate for you bad decision with your feed back. Guys will generally say, "man I know she was fat but she could suck the chrome off a bumper", or something to that effect. Trying to compensate for their obvious lack of judgement in hooking up to begin with. I don't doubt for women it is much different. Alas, in the end who cares what is said. No one loves my cock more than me I assure you and no matter what the praise or slander, I love him all the same. I think an ealier poster was on to something about postive praise though. It only peeks the interest of others to see for themselves. So beware your friends should you brag about your monster cock encounter.
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 I have never had a monster cock encounter, alas!!
carhill Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Speak out men. Does your penis size really matter ? Not to me, but I have it on good authority that women have a markedly different opinion So, is my experience abnormal in that women have pet names for their SO's equipment when describing him to friends? I've heard some quite odd ones from female friends, mainly about their ex's. Also, I've noted some guys treating their dinkle like a separate person, with a name and everything. Go figure
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 And there it is ... another insecure guy lol You missed the point. (surprise suprise) I CNGAF about women's girly chats, I CNGAF when I first learned of this back when I was a teenager, and I CNGAF when some overgrown teenager comes up with this "revelation" on a forum. It's pretty obvious you posted this thread to antagonise men and then when you get called out on being an antagonistic overgrown teenager you label them as "insecure". Otherwise why did you post this thread? If not to do the forum equivalent of running round a playground pointing at every boy and saying in a pip squeak voice "you're a boy ewwwww", then running off and giggling. ?
vonerik012 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 LOL Committment good post... My exact thoughts..
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 And you missed my point CP, alot of men have replied to this thread and like I said, it sorted out the men from the boys. I cannot see what was antagonistic about it, it is true! Lots of women have admitted it haven't they?
FleshNBones Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 People who freely talk about this stuff lack class.
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 Oooops I think I hit a few nerves - I was just filling you all in ... Nevermind
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 And you missed my point CP, alot of men have replied to this thread and like I said, it sorted out the men from the boys. I cannot see what was antagonistic about it, it is true! Lots of women have admitted it haven't they? hmmm... you posted to "sort the men from the boys"?, but you sound like you're coming of age?? "Giggle giggle we talk about penis size..."??
Lizzie60 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Come on guys.. relax.. Lishy didn't start this thread to be nasty.. She had a valid question. We DO talk about it only (well in my case) when it's a ONS or not a serious relationship... what's the big deal.. a d*ck is a d*ck... it,s not different than saying .. 'he did this, what a nice guy, or he said that, what a jerk'... Talking about our sexploits can be fun too.. Guys talk about women all the time, and don't tell me that they don't brag about their sexploits..
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 Errrrrrrr no CP, I did not post to sort the men from the boys, but that was the end result by the looks of it If you are going to get on your high horse then please read what I write and dont try to twist it! Thanks!!
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 That is what I have said Lizzie, but they are taking little parts (pardon the pun) and blowing it out the water! When girls love a man she will not tell her friends things, but when you first meet a guy you do tell your friends, then when you fall in love you keep it between you both. I can guarantee that every guy who has bitched at me has had a girlfriend who has told her close friends the gories,they were just unaware of it!!
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Well yeah men do it to... but at least I've never had that conversation about a serious girlfriend at the time. But many a convo about the girl who took you a half hour to get it up with...or the one you shagged in the bush. I walked around the Icelandic Phallalogical Museum a few years ago with a group of women... it's a collection of preserved animal penises some of which... - well you can imagine what I was subjected to.
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 You see CP, that is what I am talking about and you have laid into me for saying something that you yourself have done with your boys - Never have my friends or myelf given intimate details about a serious love, that is personal and special I promise I did not start this thread to piss you guys off, you have all been my life savers at some point. I have just realised something though, I never said that we say how little your dinkies are, it was some men who said that:confused: Have you ever watched Sex and the City? That is pretty true to life with close girlfriends who do not have sexual hangups!
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Fair enough I see where you're coming from now!! Although about small dinkies, I made the mistake when I was in Uni halls of having a ONS with someone quite malicious that decided mine wasn't up to her trojan horse standards!!
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 OMG I just remembered a funny story - I was out with my friend one night and we bumped into a guy I have known for 20 years but hadnt seen for ages - We ended up coming back to my place when the club chucked us out and we were talking about the worst things we have done This guy fessed up that he had taken out a girl at work and they ended up having sex, he bent her over to do it from behind and when he looked down she had poo around her bum and it made him limp in an instant!!!! That is not the worst though, he then told a guy at work who then told everyone at work!!!!!!! Imagine that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
vonerik012 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 So why are you making a point to tell men this? A. We don't care. B. We already knew.
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Imagine that!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No comment!!!!
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