Author Lishy Posted October 22, 2008 Author Posted October 22, 2008 This depends on the culture as well.. If a woman brags about how good her guy is in bed, usually she is DUMB. Because often times it is then her friends whom are screwing him behind her back, lol. And yes ladies, your "great girfriends" do this quite often. In South America, women do not brag about how great their guy is in bed, as they know how dumb that would be. So they usually do not mention details, or just say it is ok. As a man I have to ask you how you know this? Or did you just make it up? We tell our girls not our boys and like I say we rarely admit it!!
vonerik012 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 As a man I have to ask you how you know this? Or did you just make it up? We tell our girls not our boys and like I say we rarely admit it!! It is just something I heard quite often. I lived here 30 years, and never heard it one time..The women there are a little more possessive of their men. When men do cheat, often time it is with one of your friends when drunk, or when you are not around one of your friends make a move.. So when you are bragging about your stallion, take into consideration the cattiness of women. The last laugh is often on you. Obviously it would be a pretty stupid move to be going on about how great your man is in bed to your girlfriends lol. Guys do it too, but usually years after they break up with someone. A friend just disclosed to me yesterday he broke up with a girl a couple years ago because she had pimples on her back.. Some might say she had a bad smell in certain areas, etc. But they never mention these things when they are with the woman. They never mention good things either. It is more or less off limits.
Woggle Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 I don't mind as long as she doesn't mind me telling my friends the intimate details.
flc Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 In South America, women do not brag about how great their guy is in bed, as they know how dumb that would be. So they usually do not mention details, or just say it is ok. I have a lot of experience with South American women and they talk about sex to both their girl and guy friends. Very much more open about sex than in the US. Not sure about the bragging part but everyone knows who is having sex with who and if they are enjoying it or not.
Author Lishy Posted October 22, 2008 Author Posted October 22, 2008 But the point I am making V is that you wouldnt know would you, because you are male! It is a secret between girls. Maybe you do live in a small town that is very incestual and the women all sleep with their friends exes but there are not many places like that and neither my friends nor I would date, let alone sleep with a friends ex!
theBrokenMuse Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 *Disclaimer* I am not saying that all women do this ... Just 99.9% I don't agree at all. I think the number would actually be quite lower than that. I know in my social circle NONE of us talk about that kind of crap. I mean, I used to as a teenager but I grew out of that phase and find the idea of doing so as an adult kind of tacky and juvenile, no offense.
You'reasian Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 ......Nowadays I like em at least 6 inches and thick Are you single? jk... You guys are funny
CaliGuy Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 I dated a guy who was about the same- 3 inches... I never disclosed that information to my friends because he was part of our extended circle of friends and I never wanted that information getting around. I also dated a guy with a dink so big sex sucked because it hurt so much. I did tell my friends about that one. My bf at the time was very proud of his prowess... he had no issue with me disclosing that. Sure- girls talk about things with their friends. It's a part of our bonding process. I've also had plenty of guy friends reveal the gory details to me about their sex stories and plenty of guys admit they disclose things to their mates. I just won't reveal anything that would embarrass my SO. If I told my friends I was dating someone with a 3 inch dinkler... That would be fodder for jokes at his expense, and I couldn't do it. After a break up maybe, especially if tiny dinkler was a dink. LOL!! Dink? Dinkler?! That's cracking me up!
carhill Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 When men do cheat, often time it is with one of your friends when drunk, or when you are not around one of your friends make a move.. Hmm...is that why some of my wife's girlfriends won't touch me with a ten foot pole and others can't keep their hands off? Perhaps she is selective in her story-telling
You'reasian Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Perhaps she is selective in her story-telling Women always tell the truth.
TudorII Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 In todays age of phone cameras there is more than just verbal sharing going on I assure you. I am ready for my close up!
Author Lishy Posted October 22, 2008 Author Posted October 22, 2008 I had a bf with a winkle like a mushroom and i never told my friends ... until we split up lol
sumdude Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 LOL!! Dink? Dinkler?! That's cracking me up! lol I'm coming up with Irish dinking songs! Aye me lass let's have a drink Then go home and dunk me dink what do you think? Tell all yer friends and even yer shrink about me song and me drunken dink They'll all smile and give me a wink no need to slink or cause a stink about me song and me drunken dink!
eric82 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Yes I did know this. Which...kind of pushed me away from some relationships. Allow me to explain: I know that girls like to share every little detail of the relationship with their friends. But to me, when im trying to be intimate (not just sexually) with a girl, I want it to be something EXCLUSIVELY between me and her. So it would always be hard for me to tell her how I felt or show her intimacy knowing that it was going to end up with all of her girlfriends. I dunno, maybe i shouldnt be concerned about that...but thats just me. I agree. That's how I feel about this too. Hey Lishy, you going around telling your friends these private details and laughing about it makes me wonder if you're hiding something funny about yourself: "these big vagina ladies are getting away with murder"
Vertex Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 I know a lot of girls do share those details, but a lot of girls don't, as well. I actually don't think guys share nearly as much detail other than whether or not anything happened, lol.
vonerik012 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Actually I live in a large city. I have absolutely no problem with what they talk about. I could not care less. However, women's friends often times do sleep with their friends boyfriend. Especially if he is handsome, and they hear how awesome in bed he is. LOL, so usually the girl bragging is either.. 1. Immature and stuck in a high school type of a social life 2. Naive and almost welcoming other women to try him out.
You'reasian Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 lol I'm coming up with Irish dinking songs! Aye me lass let's have a drink Then go home and dunk me dink what do you think? Tell all yer friends and even yer shrink about me song and me drunken dink They'll all smile and give me a wink no need to slink or cause a stink about me song and me drunken dink! Well put.....I think?
Mary3 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 Are you single? jk... You guys are funny Thank you I am single ( for now ) waiting for a nice thick one.....lol....But honestly its not like I tell my gf's about every guy experience. But I find my one younger friend will tell me the details " WOW he had a huge ____ ...stuff like that. But its not like we sit around and pick apart a guy in bed. We certainly NEVER tell him he sucks orally or sexually. We just remain quiet and let him move on....
Author Lishy Posted October 23, 2008 Author Posted October 23, 2008 I am loving how the guys here who are stating they do not care are making snide and bitchy comments lol You can tell the men from the boys !! Dont worry boys, it is only a girls close friends who will know and she wont tell em the real bad stuff until you piss her off!
vonerik012 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 You can also tell whom the ladies are from the .......... Bragging and telling the world about the pieces that go inside you? Such a lady to settle down with, lol. Never, and I mean NEVER have I ever heard a man go into detail about a womans vagina, ESPECIALLY if he was dating her. Or even after they break up. They might say some whore they banged smelled bad... But honestly, who really cares if you talk about sex? Is it something to be proud of?
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 This thread reminds of high school, wayyyyyyyyyy back then.
D-Lish Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 LOL!! Dink? Dinkler?! That's cracking me up! :lmao:I love the word dink. When I was in kindergarten my best friend and I didn't know any better and thought everyone (boys and girls) had dinks... When my parents sat me down and told me that boys had a penis and girls had vaginas:eek:... I got scared and cried:o.
samspade Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 I am loving how the guys here who are stating they do not care are making snide and bitchy comments lol You can tell the men from the boys !! Dont worry boys, it is only a girls close friends who will know and she wont tell em the real bad stuff until you piss her off! That's very true, if a guy doesn't care, he shouldn't be bitching about it. It's worked to my advantage on more than a few occasions, when I've banged an ex's friend. They told me all the good stuff they'd heard about me. I thank God that women are competitive and talk so much.
Mary3 Posted October 23, 2008 Posted October 23, 2008 I'm going to guess this is a touchy subject for men grading their performance in bed ? Speak out men. Does your penis size really matter ? ( I used to say it doesn't matter but ...., )
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