taiko Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 Since I self identify as a member of 'that race' and a generation has come of age since the US military left her home so few of us are in contact anymore I have no doubt that the girlfriends asked. How far she has gone in telling I'm not sure.
CaliGuy Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 Yes, I know women talk about it but for the most part, it's "one-upmanship" with each other. They're trying to say "My BF/Husband" is better than yours. You're never going to get women to stop talking about their sex life with their friends. It's the kind of gossip that has been going on since we were created, lol. Personally, I say let 'em talk. The bragging is good for the male psyche (Unless of course he has a small willy, then it's not good!)
samspade Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 Of course I'm aware - and it doesn't bother me in the least. In fact, I couldn't care less what she tells her friends about me. But then, I'm pretty confident in my abilities and body type and sexuality. Usually the girlfriends of the woman I'm dating give me subliminal good feedback - it's usually obvious when a girl has told her friends about me, even though they think they are being discreet. And yes, with guys, details aren't important. My conversations with my guy friends regarding sex usually go like this: Me: So did you f*ck that girl? Him: Yup. Me: Good job.
joshaz Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 That the majority of the time, your girlfriend's friends all know how big your willy is, how long you 'keep it up' for and the noise you make when you cum? I cant speak for every girl but girls tell their friends these things! When my friends (or myself) meet a new guy and when they sleep with them for the first time we get every gory detail! I told my boyfriend this once but he didnt believe me lol Not surprising... There is a reason men are better suited for business, science, engineering, politics, law, etc...
samspade Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 Correction...I will note that men will tell their friends whether your teeth got in the way during oral, when your hygiene is poor, and if you're too loose. If it's good sex, usually nothing more needs to be added.
Al_Bundy Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 That the majority of the time, your girlfriend's friends all know how big your willy is, how long you 'keep it up' for and the noise you make when you cum? Really? COOL! that'll work to my advantage if we ever break up.
Author Lishy Posted October 21, 2008 Author Posted October 21, 2008 my w is close with family and has no real close friends, so i guess my "goods" are not being talked about. for shame to not have my awesomeness spoken about:p Lishy, since you know the rules: what about w's talking about their h's or does that constitute as family? and is there any time that they do not talk, like if there is something VERY wrong or does that give even more reason too. It depends on what the bad situation is, give more details and I will be able to tell you I guess not having female friends leaves me on the safe side then. Thank God I love sports and don't mind some guy droning on about stats. I am not really bothered that other people might know that about me, but I am kind of irked by the fact that a gf would want to make the size of my d*** public knowledge among her friends. It's just not right. I am pretty sure I will regret asking this, but would you mind telling me why you girls talk about it? It is just what we do its like asking why guys talk about sport! Anytime any of us sleep with a new guy the first question is "was it big?" lol
EYECANDY000 Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 I've been guilty of it. But only with guys who I'm not serious with. If its a fwb then , yes , I spill every detail from beginning to end with my best friend. But when I'm in a commited relationship, I keep those detail sacred. But the funny part is, when I know the relationship isn't going so well and we are going through out rocky period then I guess I do reveal details. But I wonder if that's because I'm vulnerable at that point. Hmmmm.. But yes, lishy .. women are more explicit than men..
Author Lishy Posted October 21, 2008 Author Posted October 21, 2008 I agree that when you love the guy you just say how wonderful it is but no gories ... Oh and you are SO right, when men piss us off we let rip and the sex life is the first thing that gets it Beware boys!!!!!!!!
samspade Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 Oh and you are SO right, when men piss us off we let rip and the sex life is the first thing that gets it Beware boys!!!!!!!! You mean our sex life with that particular girl. Luckily my options aren't limited, so it's not a problem.
Rooster_DAR Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 I was wondering why all my GF's friends keep hitting on me. I thought it was just character flaws.
Lizzie60 Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 That the majority of the time, your girlfriend's friends all know how big your willy is, how long you 'keep it up' for and the noise you make when you cum? I cant speak for every girl but girls tell their friends these things! When my friends (or myself) meet a new guy and when they sleep with them for the first time we get every gory detail! I told my boyfriend this once but he didnt believe me lol I think.. women talk about their bf's equipment and manners.. only if they are not in serious relationships with them.. I know that if my bf is one of those like what I'm having right now.. I would have no problem to talk about intimate details.. but my SO or a serious bf .. no... this is kept for myself..
You'reasian Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 That the majority of the time, your girlfriend's friends all know how big your willy is, how long you 'keep it up' for and the noise you make when you cum? I cant speak for every girl but girls tell their friends these things! When my friends (or myself) meet a new guy and when they sleep with them for the first time we get every gory detail! I told my boyfriend this once but he didnt believe me lol It depends on the girl, really - some are really into gossip - others could care less. That's why some women are friends with more guys than they are girls - they despise the catiness.
vonerik012 Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 This depends on the culture as well.. If a woman brags about how good her guy is in bed, usually she is DUMB. Because often times it is then her friends whom are screwing him behind her back, lol. And yes ladies, your "great girfriends" do this quite often. In South America, women do not brag about how great their guy is in bed, as they know how dumb that would be. So they usually do not mention details, or just say it is ok.
You'reasian Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 This depends on the culture as well.. If a woman brags about how good her guy is in bed, usually she is DUMB. Because often times it is then her friends whom are screwing him behind her back, lol. And yes ladies, your "great girfriends" do this quite often. In South America, women do not brag about how great their guy is in bed, as they know how dumb that would be. So they usually do not mention details, or just say it is ok. Dude, you just made me roll on the floor laughing and almost peeing myself......
noclobber Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 That the majority of the time, your girlfriend's friends all know how big your willy is, how long you 'keep it up' for and the noise you make when you cum? I cant speak for every girl but girls tell their friends these things! When my friends (or myself) meet a new guy and when they sleep with them for the first time we get every gory detail! I told my boyfriend this once but he didnt believe me lol you females are really something
You'reasian Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 you females are really something Something is better than nothing?
noclobber Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 Something is better than nothing? sometimes nothing is better than something
Ruby Slippers Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 Unless a friend really wants to know, I don't get into that much detail. I do let them know if my boyfriend is a stallion in bed, though (and now that I've been with a truly exceptional lover, I don't think I can ever go back). I mean, how could I hold that in?!
You'reasian Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 sometimes nothing is better than something Indeed!!!!!
MrMe Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Yes I did know this. Which...kind of pushed me away from some relationships. Allow me to explain: I know that girls like to share every little detail of the relationship with their friends. But to me, when im trying to be intimate (not just sexually) with a girl, I want it to be something EXCLUSIVELY between me and her. So it would always be hard for me to tell her how I felt or show her intimacy knowing that it was going to end up with all of her girlfriends. I dunno, maybe i shouldnt be concerned about that...but thats just me.
Mary3 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 ---- especially about the immodest "pencil d!cks" I prefer a thick pencil
Mary3 Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 Well this is ironic ... My friend just rang me and she has been seeing this guy for a while, she slept with him recently and was just telling me about the winkle size and I was inwardly laughing hahhaha[/quote I once was seeing someone who had a fully erect 3 inch penis.( great oralist though ) lol......Nowadays I like em at least 6 inches and thick
carhill Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 LOL, just repeating what my female friend told me about her ex-husband. We never got into my equipment
D-Lish Posted October 22, 2008 Posted October 22, 2008 [quote=Mary3;1892418I once was seeing someone who had a fully erect 3 inch penis.( great oralist though ) lol......Nowadays I like em at least 6 inches and thick I dated a guy who was about the same- 3 inches... I never disclosed that information to my friends because he was part of our extended circle of friends and I never wanted that information getting around. I also dated a guy with a dink so big sex sucked because it hurt so much. I did tell my friends about that one. My bf at the time was very proud of his prowess... he had no issue with me disclosing that. Sure- girls talk about things with their friends. It's a part of our bonding process. I've also had plenty of guy friends reveal the gory details to me about their sex stories and plenty of guys admit they disclose things to their mates. I just won't reveal anything that would embarrass my SO. If I told my friends I was dating someone with a 3 inch dinkler... That would be fodder for jokes at his expense, and I couldn't do it. After a break up maybe, especially if tiny dinkler was a dink.
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