lking4hlp Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 I recently started online dating and met someone who I really clicked with, and the relationship has started getting physical rather quickly. Thing is that in the process of trading messages with this person I was trading messages with someone else also (because at the time I figured at least one wouldn't work out); we just weren't able to meet until now. I really feel a good connection with the first person, but before meeting her I had already told the other girl that I would meet her this week (it was the first time she would be available). I don't want to risk the first relationship just to keep my word to the second girl; but I don't want to be rude and tell the second girl I can't even meet her after I already agreed to, and I don't want to lead her on if there is no chance (which who knows maybe there is because the first relationship could fall apart tomorrow who knows). My guy friends seem to all think I need to date as many as possible, but when a relationship starts getting physical and there is strong chemistry I feel wrong doing that. Any suggestions?
Lady Bird Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 Nothing wrong with meeting the second girl, just go and have a good time to see if you have some interest. Dating is suppose to be fun so go have fun!
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