EmperorR Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 Ever since she dumped me about a month and a half ago I've been dreading this day and now it's almost here. I felt like crap all day at work, and I probably will again tomorrow. Gah I wish I could forget.
lofi_tokyo Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 Heya Emp. I'm really sorry your anniversary (or would-be one) is so near. I suppose I am fortunate in that my would-have-been anniversary is not until February. Even then though, I've been dreading it like none other. The good news is that it will pass, and eventually, it will be just another day on the calendar. Kind of a scary thought. I guess I'm lucky in two ways, a) mine is far away b) My ex and I forgot our anniversaries on the days they happened lol. I mean, I'm sure he could still recite the date, I obviously can, but every year it rolled around, I usually remembered the day after!!! We were both kinda lax about big dates ;p
crushed66 Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 Emp, Im not trying to bs you, but tomorrow would have been our 8th yr together. Also, she did dumped me like around 6 weeks ago. You are not alone. Keep your head up.
Sysyphus28 Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 I am sorry that your feeling bad. It is really hard to "get over" someone. You don't always want to forget....and thier is no way to forget. You feel like the dumpers forgot everything you shared, but they didn't. They are people not robots. Maybe they have moved on in alot of ways, but they have not forgotten. Get more angry and less sad. Don't miss this person. Good riddance .
Author EmperorR Posted October 21, 2008 Author Posted October 21, 2008 I hate her, 28 days not even one text from her. Guess who just text me on what would be three years the damn cheater who dumped me. " hey just wondering if you are giving me back the notebook or not" Odd I've had her notebook for two months and nothing, suddenly on what would have been our three year anniversary, I'm feeling good this morning she just had to ruin it and now I feel like crap. I just deleted the text, I refuse to talk to someone who doesn't respect me. Why couldn't she have text me tommorow or last week why after almost 30 days it had to be on this day gaaaaaaa
JooLee Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 dont analyse things too much. she cheated on you. she doesnt deserve you to be moping around for her. you know what, on your anniversary go out and have a blast! go party! (dont get too drunk, we dont want some drunk dialing here) but do something that you love! prove to yourself you can enjoy life without her! start planning now!
lofi_tokyo Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 It is pretty cruel that she'd call over that, on your three year anniversary. Thats stupid. She obviously knows its your wouldhavebeen anniversary, why contact you NOW over something so petty? Honestly. I'm not very impressed.
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