Konfuzion Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 I am totally weak a little beer after work and being around the ex, and I tell her that I am so confused. And she of course asked me what, to which I responded I don't understand how I can have this intense feeling that we are supposed to be together yet at the same time I know I could never be with you again... She didn't say anything in return.. I should add to this that I have always had a small amount of psychic ability and I just "know" things like I "know" I am supposed to be with my ex forever but I also know that I can never forgive her.... Signed, Lost!
Author Konfuzion Posted October 20, 2008 Author Posted October 20, 2008 Grrr now I am tempted to log on to her myspace, and see who/what she is talking to and about... Kick me! I think I should stop drinking!
tealeafbud Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 Grrr now I am tempted to log on to her myspace, and see who/what she is talking to and about... Kick me! I think I should stop drinking! Dude, you know you got to stop. I know how you feel though. All you can do is summon all the strength and courage in yourself to move on and forget about her. Be strong. Even if you are weak around her, act as if you got balls the size of watermelons. She'll respect you more. C'mon dude! I'm supporting you as well as all of LS.
wonderboy00 Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 I feel like this too, except I'm not talking to the ex. I feel an intense feeling that I want to be with her, that I should, that it would make me happy... but, at the same time, how can I know that things will be different than before? It's hard stuff.
Meaplus3 Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 You need to get a hold of yourself and yes do put down the drinks that only makes it worse. Stop looking at her myspace and focus your attention on some thing that can be healthy for you. Good luck. AP:)
Author Konfuzion Posted October 20, 2008 Author Posted October 20, 2008 Dude, you know you got to stop. I know how you feel though. All you can do is summon all the strength and courage in yourself to move on and forget about her. Be strong. Even if you are weak around her, act as if you got balls the size of watermelons. She'll respect you more. C'mon dude! I'm supporting you as well as all of LS. Oh I have been acting like I have massive balls. But you know drinking can make people do stupid things... But I am drinking so I can sleep. Sounds bad but since the breakup a drink or two is the differance between sleeping and not sleeping.
MichiganMan222 Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 Or Nyquil....puts you right down and doesn't tempt you so much. I've been there. Right now I'm going through a strong streak. Today I found myself not busting my ass back to work from lunch just to see if she sent an email while I was gone. Its getting a little better for me and its only Day 4 since we had our final good-bye. But I have a question for you. Obviously you are really wanting this girl in your life but have a deal-breaker going on. Had you tried, or at least considered counseling to see if you could possibly forgive her? I hate seeing (like my situation), so much two-way love and it still not working because of some roadblock that is seemingly impassable. It just sucks.
Author Konfuzion Posted October 20, 2008 Author Posted October 20, 2008 Or Nyquil....puts you right down and doesn't tempt you so much. I've been there. Right now I'm going through a strong streak. Today I found myself not busting my ass back to work from lunch just to see if she sent an email while I was gone. Its getting a little better for me and its only Day 4 since we had our final good-bye. But I have a question for you. Obviously you are really wanting this girl in your life but have a deal-breaker going on. Had you tried, or at least considered counseling to see if you could possibly forgive her? I hate seeing (like my situation), so much two-way love and it still not working because of some roadblock that is seemingly impassable. It just sucks. Oh there isn't two way love, she left me and made it very clear that she no longer loved me and that she wasn't happy. I don't really know how shes feels now I know she is having a great time, and at the same time I know the ending of our relationship was a little hard on her but totally what she wanted. As far as counseling we tried it all, including a couples retreat among other things.
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