teamzissou00 Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 I'm 22 and in college for background. I've been friends with this girl for a year or two. She's always liked me as more than friends. I am attracted to her sexually, but not really in a way that I'd want to have a full relationship with her. I've told her this, and she still said she'd be ok with just having fun. I've always resisted being with her, because I didn't think it was fair if she liked me beyond that. I also don't usually like to have sex with people I can't see myself at least potentially being with long-term. I haven't been with anyone in about half a year though, and it would be nice. It doesn't feel right for some reason, even though it would be fun. What should I do?
Tony T Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. Chances are good that this lady is thinking if the two of you do the deed that you'll think more of her...fall for her and, according to you, that's not going to happen. It just smells like you would regret having sex with her and most probably do serious damage to your friendship and to her feelings. Some things are better left undone. Good luck on finding yourself someone special who you feel you could care about long term. Meanwhile, are you right handed or left handed?
JamesM Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 Don't do it. You will lose a friend at best. She may say she is happy with just sex, but what I see is someone who hopes you may feel differently AFTER sex. Keep things as they are...unless you feel you do want more than "just friends."
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