sj9ers Posted October 20, 2008 Posted October 20, 2008 So my ex dumped me a month and a half ago because she wasn't sure at the time if she wanted me as a friend or a boyfriend and that she would rather have me as a friend than nothing at all and that we couldn't be friends at the time. She also told one of my friends that our friendship might grow into something later. I was in NC up until about a week ago when I sent her an email basically saying there was no hard feelings and that it would be great if we could be friends and good luck with everything, and she sent me an email back saying that she did mean what she said about wanting to be friends. Well today she sent me like 6 pictures of us hugging and going out together because she said I might like to have them. Does this mean anything or am I looking too much into it?
AJ87 Posted October 21, 2008 Posted October 21, 2008 to me it sounds like she doesnt want to lose that special thing with you... recently my fiance said she wants to be friends but the thing... having her pictures dont make help me get over her, so i gave the pictures back. i wouldnt look too much into it about the whole pictures thing, shes dropping hints that she dont want to lose u... i just see it as her remember the good times then, rather than whats happening now in your lives... thing is you got to respect her decision as a person than someone you loved or still love up to you my friend, but pictures dont do favors cos if i had pictures of my ex fiance .. and a few months to a year later i see her with someone else its going to kill me more, cos those pictures would remind me of great times and i wont think of bad times, and in the end would lead to desperation to have her back and jealousy i hope this helps
vivrantflo Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 Dude, she was the dumper.. women don't dump men that they want to be with. She doesn't want to be with you. The pictures are an immature way of trying to get a reaction out of you. It's silly. she wants you to stay hooked on her for whatever reason. Get rid of the pictures, and tell her that you dont want anymore. If you still have feelings for her, a friendship wont work.. dont kid yourself. Cause let me tell you.. WHEN she finds another dude to date, you'll be the first to hear it... and it's gonna sting. Don't play her game.. go NC, and stay there
Geishawhelk Posted October 25, 2008 Posted October 25, 2008 Your biggest mistake was breaking NC. That's set the cat amongst the pigeons, because now, she knows just how to push your buttons.....
edrodr Posted October 29, 2008 Posted October 29, 2008 Dude, she was the dumper.. women don't dump men that they want to be with. She doesn't want to be with you. The pictures are an immature way of trying to get a reaction out of you. It's silly. she wants you to stay hooked on her for whatever reason. Get rid of the pictures, and tell her that you dont want anymore. If you still have feelings for her, a friendship wont work.. dont kid yourself. Cause let me tell you.. WHEN she finds another dude to date, you'll be the first to hear it... and it's gonna sting. Don't play her game.. go NC, and stay there If only I can read this a million times to get it stuck in my head..
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